Hello all, new to Aneros play - General Discussion

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

PortageFaves — Mon, 15 Dec 2025 16:41:38 +0000

Thanks once again for those who have provided their thoughts on my journey. I’ve given it a few more goes a couple of times, really focusing on not rushing it, just being relaxed, focusing on the feelings. Admittedly, I have been finding it hard to empty my mind of pointless thoughts, my mind is always thinking of random rubbish (and always has done), perhaps I’m just not in a deep enough state of relaxation…

I just haven’t managed to replicate what happened to me in my first two sessions (autof***, slapping of the bed with my palms, loss of sensation in my lower arms, panting). It’s now taking longer for my hips to start gyrating, at the beginning this happened in a matter of minutes!!!! Gah!

When I look back I am pleased that I achieved that so quickly! I just wish that those sessions could’ve gone on for longer without me having to end them early due to time constraints. I really do think that I could’ve achieved a super o the first time.

I think what I need is some guaranteed ‘alone time’ without having my eye on the clock, but that’s hard when you’ve got children and a wife.

Perhaps the solution is just to go and rent a hotel room for a night!

I’m working on the nipple simulation, but do prefer touching my thighs and balls.

Hopefully before long, I’ll start seeing some progress.

If anyone could recommend videos on breathing techniques, I’d be very grateful to receive them. I’ve read the forums, but things are easier to understand in video format I find.

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

Bgood2u — Sun, 16 Nov 2025 04:56:16 +0000

@portagefaves It sounds like you’re well on your way to this new enlightening experience! Congratulations! As you develop the ability to fully control your pelvic musculature, you’ll need less time to achieve what when beginning will take much longer. My advice is simply don’t try to rush it. Its a long trip for the majority of us but savor each new milestone as you begin. Read the threads and wiki for guidance but travel at your own pace. You’ll feel new things as you progress and don’t be disappointed if you don’t progress as fast as you think you should or compare your experiences with someone else’s. We are wired to experience penile pleasure and can rub one out quickly but this is an entirely different path to orgasm. Focus on the new sensation and subtle feelings to make the muscle mind connection in your abdomen behind your cock as the massager moves. Slight contractions are better than hammering ones in my opinion but that me and may not be your thing. You’ll definitely know the AF when it happens as it is a result of the exhaustion of the pc and anal sphincters which “compete” with one another pulling the Aneros in and out effortlessly. Wishing you continued success!

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

PortageFaves — Tue, 04 Nov 2025 16:04:35 +0000

Hello chaps, my session was selfishly cut short today by a wife who left work FOUR HOURS EARLY! I’d put aside four hours, only had one 😭

I’m quite sure I managed to get in to autofu** mode, all very pleasant with lots of uncontrollable shaking, quivering, and gyrating, plus this time my lower arms and hands were practically immobilised through numbness. A tiny bit of precum. I’ll have to do further research into these p-waves, I’m not sure whether I’m having them. Hopefully I won’t be disturbed next Tuesday!

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

Will704 — Tue, 04 Nov 2025 01:17:16 +0000

@frostfire is right! The nipples will ramp things up quickly. The autof**k is when you can literally feel the aneros moving in and out due to anal contractions. There is a great description on this site with visuals to show what it does when it’s rocking by itself back and forth. The precum let’s you know your headed in the right direction!!

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

FrostFire — Mon, 03 Nov 2025 20:30:56 +0000

The P-waves just ride them and keep riding them. They come and go and each is unique and they feel incredible when you just relax and let it happen. Yes the auto gyrating is perfectly fine and if you keep it up your whole body just might start shaking uncontrollably. Welcome to the Super-O you're almost there!

The only two things I would recommend is give yourself more time for a session and try rubbing your nipples to see what that feels like in the middle of your session.

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

PortageFaves — Thu, 30 Oct 2025 07:59:40 +0000

Hi all - I received my new toy two days ago (Helix Syn) and believe I’m seeing results already, though not knowing what to expect I wanted to seek the advice of some experts first of all!

I only had 30 minutes yesterday; within just a few moments I had what I can only describe as some very ‘pleasurable’ feelings.
These subsided soon after; I then focused on my breathing. After 10 minutes or so my leg legs and hips started to twitch; after five further minutes, my hips were gyrating almost uncontrollably. If I remember rightly, I could feel a ‘pounding’ inside (is this what they call the ‘autof**k’?) It all felt ‘pleasant’ but not what I would call pleasurable, i.e. orgasmic in any way. But I really enjoyed the experience.
At the end, I had traces of pre-cum.
Was desperate to continue, but I didn’t have enough time. Was also soooo hard not to start having a wank!

How is this sounding to you? Am I on the right track?

Is it usual that my hips were gyrating in the way they were without overwhelmingly pleasurable sensations?

What would you be doing next time if you and me?

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

gdhoward — Wed, 15 Oct 2025 17:27:26 +0000

@fred27 that’s what I was thinking but wasn’t sure.

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

Fred27 — Sat, 11 Oct 2025 12:15:19 +0000

@gdhoward it’s when the Aneros takes over moving in and out rhythmically and is the ultimate pleasure!

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

gdhoward — Fri, 10 Oct 2025 19:53:37 +0000

@will704 thanks for the reply and advice. I’ve got lower back pain as well and it’s only gotten worse. I never thought of that being an issue though.

I definitely love pleasuring her orally and most of the time, that’s how she orgasms.

I’ve also been seeing my urologist, he’s the one that prescribed the injections. I’m almost at a loss and damn near willing to try anything. Will definitely be talking with the wife as well.

RE: Hello all, new to Aneros play

Will704 — Fri, 10 Oct 2025 17:27:20 +0000

@gdhoward one fun and pleasurable experience is wearing your aneros device while going down on your wife. If she’s enjoying what your doing and your enjoying what aneros is doing, it’s a win, win! If you get excited from giving her oral, there is a good chance the excitement with enlarge your prostate as it should when you’re aroused. When your prostate enlarges slightly, it make the device have more contact. When the 2 meet, you will know. Great time to have the conversation about the new device with the wifey while she’s under your spell.😜

I did experience a time in my life where back pain was preventing me from having an orgasm period. I hurt so bad I would loose my erection and could not enjoy having sex or even receiving a hand job from my beautiful wife. Once I got that behind me it’s been great again. My wife did give me some funny looks when I introduced her to me wearing the aneros. She knows what a freak I am so it didn’t surprise her. She benefits from it too when it’s part of us being together. I definitely have my share of alone time as well. Have a good conversation with your Doctor about what you’re experiencing and see what can be done to help with your concerns. You deserve to have pleasure and it’s normal to have the desire to do so. The doctor should be willing to help you with your concerns.