Heart Racing, sinking feeling, cold-white-flushed....then nothing. A question...

Yes, you are onto something nice! It is, however, easily subdued through "conscious" actions. I've been there, and beyond, many times...and it's been one of the deepest and incredibly satisfying, yet often ellusive, mental states I've attained on this journey. It takes me the longest time to get there and a deeply relaxed state is necessary. Once there, however, my Prostate becomes super active and my body very sensitive where every little twitch of ANY muscle in my body will shoot pleasure straight to my Prostate or brain and my arousal level goes much higher. At this point, my orgasmic state is very high and the pwaves and orgasms are nearly constant. This is by far my favorite type of orgasm...either wet or dry! It happened yesterday without an aneros, but can just as easily with an aneros.

Just relax and fall into it by letting the pleasure lead you! If a little participation feels good, try it, but then back off, and see what happens. It's taken many hours of experi"mental"ization to get where I can get this far more often, so just keep going!

TG

two steps forward, 5 steps back.my sessions have been poor for nearly a month now, not sure why i just don't feel anything much? why is this such a roller coaster for me? not even my legs in the air technique works, which worked 100% of the time, every time for every session....

From what I've learned, we all go through these cycles! I know I've been through many of them. I just don't worry about it because I know it's temporary! And before you know it, it's back and all is good! You're not alone!

TG

Fingers. Crossed.

trying t keep the faith!

the biggest hurdle is not understanding my desire level or what my body wants lately. I get strong pwaves when lying on my side without an aneros, which creates warmth in my body and prostate and makes me very aroused. but the second i stop it ends up, in my session, leading nowhere.

Nipple stim now after around 20 secs causes this odd feeling, a feeling of strange discomfort, but more than that i fee very self aware somehow, in a very negative way. The second i stop the nip stim, the feeling stops. i used to get this in my previous sessions too but it would take around half an hour before i would feel this...

ok well perhaps you're right. Ive discovered something though and if I'm right....

I had a session the other day, i made sure i didn't ejaculate.Then i had another session the next day.

The feelings came back, but not as strong.

if i have another tomorrow and if its stronger it means I'm right: that i need to have 3-4 sessions that build up to a decent one around the 5th-6th time (usually a week of fairly 'meh' sessions)

Why or how do others have such success in one session, it takes me 5 times longer to reach the same place i was months ago is a mystery

I'm believing that after a very successful session, with lots of orgasms, we may need a period to recharge!

When I'm having MMO's lasting 1-2 hours, my mind is in a highly charged and orgasmic state, and my body is active at a level that must put some stress on me physically, emotionally and mentally; which means I'm not balanced in any or all states!

So, my conclusion at the moment, is that my body and mind need to seek a balanced state in order to recover from my amazing orgasms....after which I can restart my arrousal cycle all over, once again!

I don't see this as anything abnormal, just cyclical, and a natural reaction to our ability to attain such high levels of arrousal!

TG

If one's session(s) are causing stress in any shape, fashion, or form something is amiss! This person has no balance, as well as Energy blockages(IMO). Sessions should bring about balance and peace. These people running about having self induced A-less day in and day out are doing themselves a disservice. The same holds true for people that over indulge in Aneros sessions. What is the purpose of sitting around orgasming all day, just because one has the ability to do so? This is nothing but gluttony. This also is a major source of imbalance and chaos. People would be better served to let the A-less find them,
as well as limit their Aneros sessions.

I agree there is a recovery period, my issue is that in order to get to a successful session I need to ramp it up in multiple prior sessions, around 5-6 that are increasingly better until I happens in say; the 7th. It's exhausting having to do it this way.

It seems for most here that you can reach your heights in one session, for me it's a much lengthier process.

It's like my body/prostate 'forgets' how it works and I have to sort of 'pseudo-Mini-rewire' every damn session until session #7 where it's back to the progress I was making ages ago, it's draining.

I had a long break after my most successful session, about 2 weeks maybe 3. When I then had a session I felt nothing! The next session a little more, the one after a little more again..... Rinse and repeat.

It almost always leads to frustration and likely masturbation.