Just curious. Any other gay guys out there who want to chat about this stuff? I enjoy reading all the posts, gay or straight. Just wondering about other perspectives from my perspective.
Sure, I'd love to chat. My Yahoo Messenger is @yahoo.com">jrcfbch@yahoo.com (email address too). I also have AIM Messenger, Google Talk, and Windows Live Messenger. jrcfbch is the screen name for all of them. Drop me an email and/or private message (on the Aneros account). You should reply to this and post your Messenger and/or email so people can contact and chat with you. Just let me know who you are (that you are from the Aneros forum) if you decide to chat.
Check out these links too:
http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3181&sid=5fc3a97b2f1c637bcb1c2a5b32cc5b9b
http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=3187&sid=5fc3a97b2f1c637bcb1c2a5b32cc5b9b
http://www.aneros.com/forum/search.php?search_author=equalityboy81
Hi Guys.
Hope you will keep posting here in the spirit of this forum (avoiding using it for cruising) but also welcome those of us who are elsewhere along the male orientation rainbow and age range (I'm in my early 60s), particularly other young males.
Have you gay guys just joining us added your vote to Buster's Poll Age of forum at: http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=2172 ? If not please do, because we older guys are a large majority who have voted at the moment. Maybe you should launch a poll here of who is where on the gender identity/orientation rainbow.
I say this as a guy who is on the heterosexual side of the rainbow spectrum, but could also be described as largely hetero-biased bisexual, in that I have no problem with open discussion of homosexual practices and responses, and have many gay and lesbian friends. I had a close male friend in my later teens and we shared several passions on other topics, and although both dating girls (in the dark days before The Pill), decided we wanted to explore sexual intimacy with each other first. After he was married and had children, he found that he was truly gay and found a wonderful gay partner. I married and had children and found that the very best experience of my life! He and I have remained friends (platonic) and talk about all kinds of things including sex.
So I've been there and tried it all and found that I was and am more sexually attracted to females, but I am very glad that I did have that homosexual techniques/feelings experience. Feminist Germaine Greer has said no man is a fit partner for a woman unless he has taken another guy's penis up his "vulnerability". I have manually and dildo massaged my prostate since I was about 13-14, years before the experiments with my friend.
Have you guys had any orgasmic events without stimulation in the day or two after an Aneros session? I did in my youth and called them then Intellectual Orgasms. The IOs (Intellectual Orgasms: please see Early Post of Youth Experiences post in my blog at: http://www.aneros.com/displayentry.php?id=205 ) that resulted were a life-changing glorious experience then and have contributed to being exceptionally integrated as a person, as we all are regardless of our gender orientations, where our "male" and "female", assertive and vulnerable fullness of being is naturally integrated and expressed in our way of being socially and with our partner.
I am interested in your generation of young men and your experiences and thoughts about your experiences as we all share this Aneros (and for me and others here KSMO) adventure. So welcome and let's explore our common issues with our common tissues here in this forum, its discussions, polls and chats, in a mutually respectful fully open manner. Thanks guys.
artform
I personally don't mind talking to anyone of any age regardless of gender and sexual orientation. I get along really well with senior citizens, sometimes more than my own generation, and some of them are my closest friends. But I can understand how some guys in their 20's want to relate to other guys their age and it makes them feel more at ease to know there are other guys their age too using the Aneros. But I understand what you are saying. I like chatting with anyone about the Aneros though. There are some who probably cruise on here but I for one sometimes like to chat with others about the Aneros outside of the forum, not for sex per se, but if I makes friends with someone, fall for them, or end up liking them in a sexual way, all the better. My initial intentions though are to talk about the Aneros and possibly make friends with other Aneros users like myself. It's a learning experience. The Aneros website does not have a full time chat section yet.
Thanks equalityboy81!
By all means... I did not mean that everyone has to be in on everything at all. My intention is that all males of all ages and all orientations be able to openly discuss the elements of the experience of becoming multi-orgasmic here in this forum, and as many women of all backgrounds as possible be here too.
I'm part of a relatively small minority of married heterosexuals here whose practice is primarily with his wife very much involved and we married types like to chat in more detail with each other too. No problems. Given another reaction you've had on another tread recently, I wanted to say welcome. Given my own youth experiences, particularly the IOs, I am very interested in what range of after-effects you guys may experience from regular prostate massage, and I hope we might start a thread or blog or poll exploring that potential, for those young gay, bi, straight and other guys taking up this practice.
Again, all the best with your journey here, and as you and the groups you form socially spread the word about male multiple orgasms, the world of orgasmic energies separate from ejaculation, and the joys of Aneros!
artform
Hey, guys.
I just like posting on here sometimes and getting peoples input and perspectives. Also like to share my experiences and read about others. I was just curious about other gay people on here too, not trying to cruise. I don't have time to post a lot but will try to keep up. Cool perspectives artform, thanks for sharing.
Had a wild ride Monday. First time I used the aneros and watched porn together. Oh, I also got a little stoned first. It was pretty crazy. Had several super O's and then a super T. About an hour later I did it again. I'm curious if you don't go for a super t what happens if you just keep it going? Lately I've been getting a lot of super O's but find myself going for a super t because it seems as if you could be at it for hours (which I have).
Peace
Brent:
Please explain to me what happens to you yourself during these Super O's. How long does each one of them last a piece for you? How long was your longest session of Super O's? I've heard you can actually go on and on with the Super Os and they'll just keep getting better and better and more intense each time. That they can go on indefinately until you pass out from exhaustion, if you ejaculate, or decide to quit. A Super T is always a good way to end a long Super O sesssion.
EB81,
I might suggest that you experiment a bit with NOT ending a session with a Super T. It allows that good sexual energy to stay active. The time between your sessions is very interesting as well. I am not saying to never ejaculate but rather just play around with your sexual energy for a while.
Right on Buster! Guys, I too found there was a powerful desire or "need" to complete a session with an ejaculation for the first couple of months of practice. Things really progressed however when I was able to stop that and focus on the energies however they wanted to manifest, and ignored the sense of urgency to erupt.
That is also when the Day-After Effects began to appear as those orgasmic energies could continue to work their magic throughout the body, felt or not at times, but generally contributing to a wonderful sense of well-being.
I have added two new polls in the Community Polls section of the Forum: one on Day-After Effects and one on Male Sexual Orientation, the latter giving a multi-step range. Please vote and post your own comments and thoughts on how orientation might effect one's aneros practice and overall orgasmic-energetics experiences.
all the best to all
artform