First Time Sex Post Aneros?

Overthinking never improves anything sexual. 

Posted by: @brandiff

I’m curious - what should I expect if I meet this guy to engage in some fun?

As with Aneros use it is probably best to not expect anything and allow yourself to be in the moment and go with your feelings at the time.

Posted by: @brandiff

Like I’m concerned I’ll just have a flaccid prostate orgasm or something and embarrass myself? Or like won’t be able to get hard or something. How do I rebalance myself? Or am I overthinking this?

I agree with @Pablito1963, you are probably overthinking this and only creating anxiety for yourself. perhaps it is best to just consider this an adventure, accepting that there is no expected outcome. However, if you do set a meetup date, it might be a good idea to make sure the penis hydraulics are still functioning adequately by doing some manual masturbation just to freshen those neural pathways in the brain and holding off Aneros use for a bit.

Posted by: @brandiff

I obviously don’t wanna explain what I’ve been doing for the past 6 months to a guy who just wants to give me a BJ.

Well you don't have to elaborate about your current sexual practices but you shouldn't hide them either, honesty is always the best path forward in any relationship, regardless of the level of intimacy. I assume you will have discussed all health concerns you may have. Have fun and play safe.

Good Vibes to You!

 If you didn't have ED problems before Aneros, you shouldn't have any problems now, you only expanded your sexual repitoire, really know different than jerking off. In regards to talking about it, ask yourself would you be creeped out or turned on, if it came up in a conversation, and the shoe was on the other foot? I'lD personally would go more with the type thats turned on. If is a turn off for him, let him suck your limp dick and part ways.lol

Yeah, as you mentioned, you are overthinking it.

The only possible issue is ‘use it or lose it’. Prolonged non use of penis and ejaculation abstinence could cause some atrophy which in turn could make scar tissue when you start up again. I doubt you’d be there in 6 mths though.

Knock one out every couple of weeks to keep things in working order.

No offense but, use it or lose it, has know basis in medical fact. As a Dr. once explained to me. If you are getting morning wood, but not getting hard when it comes time to perform is purely pyschological. Which really made simple sense. And pointed me in the right direction to cure the bouts of ED I used to suffer.

ed

Posted by: @tbob

And pointed me in the right direction to cure the bouts of ED I used to suffer.

I'm in the boat you were; what was the recipe if I may ask?

Umm, BJ WITH the aneros is my vote. Rocked my world the first time I did it

@ggringo  Partially just hereing something that made sense. One has to find what the mental block is. It can be directly related or not seemingly related at all. 

@tbob None taken,I just know someone it happened to. He had a long period of abstinence due to a condition. When he got sorted,the first erection he had caused excruciating pain. The docs told him some scar tissue had formed due to atrophy. They do say some regular use is very beneficial to genital health. I’m sure women can atrophy also.

@helghast My guess is he wasn't experiencing night or morning wood. The average normal man has btwn.3-6 erections through the night, along with morning wood. 

A normal man will eventually have noctunal emmisions, and not always as wet dreams.