i finally received the Helix Sun and used it 12-31-17 for around 20 minutes. I didn’t want to go any longer so not to get sore. (Next day I came down with the crud and am just not getting over it, that’s why I just now posting). Coconut oil was used as a lube. When I was removing it, it felt like my body was trying to hold on to it. Question: I relaxed as much as I could, it was very uncomfortable, felt like I was pulling myself inside out, what causes this? I used plenty of lube, is it the right kind?
thanks
Need
@Needtolearn
welcome!
Coconut oil oil is a great lube for handing it to yourself, but might not be the best for the silicone helix. I’d recommend using a thick water based lube that is recommended for anal play. I like LiquidSilk Maximus from the UK You can use any thick water based lube you like. That’s just my fave.
Also so at first you may need to bear down a bit (push like you’re having a BM) while slowly removing the helix until your body is used to toys back there.
Hope nor that helps and I hope you’re feeling better!!
When I started I had the same issue. Bearing down as RoJackSYN suggested worked for me as well.
the only thing I'll add is that at first it helped if I was sitting on the toilet since my body was used to that position for doing that. Plus no chance of having a mistake somewhere I didn't want it to happen.
best of luck on your journey.
Thanks for the replies
@Needtolearn
you bet, man! Important thing is have fun, keep having sessions. Don’t get discouraged. This isn’t jerking off: this is different, and it takes time for your body to sensitize itself to this new form of stimulation