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@Surrey83 welcome on board the Aneros World!

You did not mention which model of the Progasm you received but they are all great! My advice is to read the Wiki section of this site; the content has provided the essential tips and has helped countless Newbies in the start of their journey. Adding to the Wiki tips, I would suggest to refrain yourself from expecting something; let your body give you the sensation it wants to. Do not chase or try to initiate orgasm. This is different than penile play.

Also, make sure you lube up properly; again full instructions in the Wiki section.

Relax and take the time to enjoy. Patience will pay off! Good luck!

Don't be afraid to write about your progress. Members are here to help you.

@Surrey83 If your Progasm is the regular size, it might be a bit on the large side if you are a virgin in terms of anal play. With Aneros, mobility trumps fill, in particular during the learning process. My advice would be to start with a less "intimidating" massager, e.g. the Helix Syn or similar size.

@Surrey83 All the info you have received is good. As @Pavlov has pointed out, "bigger" is not necessary "better" when it comes to Aneros prostate stim. I started out with the Helix classic and would recommend it highly, You really should consider another (smaller) model. Please get back on the Forum often as you progress; we have all been there!

Hi guys,

So I felt the first session didn't go too well...whilst the size didn't necessarily cause me any discomfort, i didn't get any overriding sensations from the prostate. The entire experience was a turn on, and in the end after having the prograsm in place for about 45 minutes, I finished up 'by hand' and had a very good orgasm, but that wasn't necessarily what I was looking for.

So do you all feel that the Helix would be better to begin with? What model in particular as there seem to be a few?

Thanks!

@Surrey83 The first model you need to get is called "Patience", and you would also be well served by returning the "Expectations". As for which is the best Aneros Prostate Massager for beginners you will get as many answers as you will get replies. I have used most models, and my personal favourite, and the one I would recommend for you as a beginner, is the Helix Syn.

Orgasms that originate from prostate stimulation is an entirely different ball game (pun intended) than the traditional orgasms we are used to from intercourse or from "finishing up by hand". It's therefore a good idea to clear your mind and your expectations and embark on a journey of unprejudiced exploration. Allow for a dozen or so sessions that you devote solely for practice and experimentation, without expecting any results whatsoever. Relax and listen to your body. Allow yourself to enjoy every plesurable sensation that may appear. Some of them may never appear again, some of them may with time grow to become full body, multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms that will blow your mind.

You have already taken your first steps in the right direction on your journey towards the land of bliss. Continue to practice and experiment and to make use of the help and support available on this site. Happy travelling!

@Pavlov thanks for you post! On your advice I've gone for a helix syn which is due to arrive tomorrow (good deal on amazon!)...I'm home around noon tomorrow after a couple of work meetings so plan to try it out ASAP....will report back!

Thanks again all!!

@Surrey83 Enjoy! 🙂 Looking forward to reading your report.