Hi all,
I am a beginner in aneros, although i have this toy for almost 3 years, but I never really active in practicing/playing with it as I find it very difficult to relax my mind and myself after inserting. Doing contraction exercise is also too boring for me and I usually give up halfway. So, normally I go with do nothing method, and sleep with aneros inside. However, I also find it hard to sleep with aneros inserted. I feel there is some kind of itchy feeling inside me and some wave is generating and keep me awake and hard to fall sleep. If I pay too pay attention to aneros, the feeling is slow faded, if I ignore it, then it is kinds of disturbing my sleep and keep me awake. Therefore, I had not luck even with sleeping with aneros.
Yesterday night, was something different, some new experience. I went to bed quick late and feeling really tired, and I thought of it has been been while I did not try aneros. So, I took out my toy and slept with it.... I was very tired and fall asleep quickly... Then suddenly, about 30min to 45min later, I woke up myself with whole body contraction and my legs and hands were out of control. The feeling is not exactly orgasmic or arousal (my penis is completely soft) , just kind of uncontrollable pleasure waving thru my body. It last for less than 10s, or more. After which, I went back to sleep and it came back again for one more time with shorter period. After the second time, I found myself really need a rest and removed my aneros and continued sleep. I woke up morning and did not feel anything special
Well, it does not seems like a mini-o or dry-o or anything? Or I just reach a milestone? I hope I can do it again .........
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Your description sounds like my first mini orgasm. I was asleep too and something woke me, my eupho moving by itself over my prostate and sending sensuous pleasure waves over me. It's certainly a milestone for you whatever it is or whatever you call it. It didn't feel like a traditional orgasm and I wasn't aroused by anything going on outside myself like a sex partner or porn. Don't expect it to be like a climax and ejaculate orgasm. Maybe you are more rewired than you realized and it took sleep to quiet your mind enough for your body to take over the pursuit of pleasure 🙂
Try meditation, hypnoanerosession, get someone to coach you, learn to arouse yourself without using your penis, soft music, low lights, etc. I wish you well.
@euphemistic, thanks for you reply. I will continue my journey with your advises and trying to be completely in relax mood. Trying too hard will not make any better in this journey.
I find that contraction exercises and even involuntary contractions is not really helpful for my aneros session. It can generate arousal that makes me too eager to reach the desired result, however the arousal does not last long and can be discouraging after faded.