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03/16/1999 6:00 pm
Hi, new user, already had numerous orgasms, my first one on my 3rd session, but can anyone answer a few basic questions:
1) I feel like I am getting 'blocked' sometimes actually entering an orgasm, I get really close and am sort of expecting something to happen but just get stuck there without going into an actual orgasm no matter how hard I try (is that the problem?) then I think 'I'm trying too hard' and relax all my muscles, but then lose the feeling as if the tension allows it to grow but too much tension just blocks the orgasm from actually happening. Is being fully relaxed the best way to go or does some tension in the body help? I just can't work it out from my experience so far. Any other help on being able to break through regularly would be appreciated.
2) When I'm having an orgasm I feel as if there is another orgasm waiting to happen on top of it - a sort of pre-orgasm tingling building in my pelvis that needs to be released, I think it broke through once and I had a more intense experience for a few minutes after but can't repeat that experience although I feel this extra sensation quite often. What is it? and how do I get it to release?
thanks.
05/24/2015 1:17 pm
@smudgefish - Congratulations on the early success! Took me six months, so jealuos there.
1. You are correct, you can not force Aneros. It's counter-intuitive to relax more as Orgasm approaches, but that is key. Just letting go and riding the pleasure waves takes me away. Can be a bit scary as may feel like drowning in pleasure seas, but you're body knows how to swim to ecstasy.
2. Once again, it's about letting go. It's hard at the beginning as counter to ejaculatory orgasms we grow up on, but as you realize and accept how awesome your body is in producing pleasure all bets are off!!
Happy Riding!!
05/24/2015 3:13 pm
Completely agree with Varmint.
Just let it come to you. Avoid pursuing it; it is an elusive creature. Patience, relaxation, low expectations. Those are key.
Congratulations on your experiences so far, and enjoy what is yet to come. Look for and savor all that you sense. Every sensation, even the smallest, has its own significance. Don't miss out by expecting something else.
Take care and continue to ask questions.
brine
05/24/2015 3:16 pm
I second @Varmint 's congratulations and agree with @Brine 's counsel.
I call that "blocked" feeling my "pelvic gag reflex" and the key to moving forward is just allowing myself to 'float and glide.' With time, relaxed breathing and a smile (seasoned with gentle love of self) you'll emerge with a big grin.
05/24/2015 3:24 pm
Thanks for advice so far - still a lot of learning to do! Have to say what I am getting so far is out of this world, never thought I could experience such pleasure for so long, I'm looking forward to seeing where I get to in the future. I will try the relaxing thing and see what happens.
05/24/2015 3:45 pm
I can say with certainty that this journey has no end. There are always new things to discover and experience. Wait for them, celebrate them when they come to you.
Relax and enjoy the journey.
brine
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