I had some sort of epiphany during my session this morning. I have read in the past that we should follow the pleasure and that really didn't sink in till today. I had always been expecting that I'd feel pleasure directly from my prostate, and sometimes I do, but the bulk of the pleasurable sensation that I get seems to be focused in my sphincter. At one point today I felt great P-waves radiating from my sphincter and then thought "oh, I need to contract to focus that pleasure in my prostate." Just like that the P-waves were gone! Throughout the remainder of the session I endeavored to focus on the sensation wherever it was. Just a random thought that emerged from my pleasure addled brain today.
So true! When a feeling starts, relax and go with it! Enjoy every twitch and spasm and let them take control! Do not try to force anything or the feelings will flee! As you allow the feelings to take control, each session thereafter will become automatic and grow in intensity!
Mostly,it’s just letting yen rhythm continue. we don’t always need to change things up or up the tempo. Just let go of the reigns and let it rip!