I have been using Aneros for over a year with great success. I do however wonder if I am missing something.I never get hard while using it, sometimes I get semi erect but not much. All the videos I see and the discussions on here indicate that people get hard while using it, even if it comes in cycles. I never do but I enjoy tremendous orgasms, Dry and Super-O. So my question is, is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this?
Its bizarre i can NEVER be soft and feel anything orgasmic in my prostate, the orgasm energy in my prostate is pure sexual energy and it gets me as hard as a rock. If i am soft then i feel nothing whatsoever in my prostate. Odd and tbh i wish i have what you have, i would prefer that hugely, its so distracting!
is this normal?
Hey, aren't we all unique? Why should anything be the same to everyone?
We all lived absolutely different lives, had unique experiences and unique memories of up to (my) fifty decades and more. Even if two people are unified in a sexually blissful intercourse, none of them will get the same experience out of the same thing. I still achieved no HFWO from Aless or Aneros usage so far, others are complaining about not achieving a SuperO because they can't avoid an HFWO.
To myself erections come in circles and that's good, cause it's recommended to loose one's erection at least after about 20 minutes to let your whole body recover. The best I learned for myself is to fully ignore my penis when I want to focus on my vibes. I would add, you can learn to talk your erection down. Lately I got my teeth into my upcoming vibes, visualizing it as something like a fast growing vine. This picture let me melt into my vibes and all distraction by my erection was gone, because the imagination was so domineering. Sometimes I'm even not sure whether I am just hard or not, because other feelings are so overwhelming.
Have fun and don't take it all too serious. This is not a contest! Enjoy what you get! Don't envy the other's success. If they were comparable, perhaps your own orgasms already have felt better than those you've just read about, who knows?
^^^^^^Very well said.
If it makes the OP feel any better sometime hard erections during my sessions are distracting and make me clench at the worst possible time when the involuntaries are really getting going. Of course this usually stops the upward progress of my orgasm and I have to start over, bummer.
I just enjoy whatever sensation my Aneros devices decide to give me. If I get an erection all well and good but if I don't well who cares as long as I get a good ride.
Bottom line is I am not going to use the erection so just enjoy...
I don't know, but for me it's impossible to use the aneros without getting hard. I'm already hard before I insert it just out of excitement.
I am a beginner with aneros but having an erection during the session which I almost always have (it cycles from rock hard to flaccid) can kill it for me and I have to Start over.
As soon as I get some very exciting feelings from my prostate I usually get hard which interferes with my unvoluntary contractions.
Curious what future sessions will bring and if I can ignore getting hard during a session.
But no matter what I am always enjoying what I get out of each session and just try to listen to what my body feels and tells ne.
Have been an Aneros guy for about a year. Did get hard in the beginning but seldom do now even with mind blowing sessions!
I've also been using Aneros (Helix Syn & Progasm) for a little over a year. My experiences seem very similar to yours - great sessions but few erections. Doesn't seem to hurt the experience for me whatsoever.
I am a user of 13 years. It helps if I am erect when I start but 5 minutes in I lose it. It usually takes me between 5-10 minutes from insertion to full blown super o. A long session for me is 2-3 hours. Usually at the end of 2 hours I get so turned on I get hard again. It is very difficult for me to remain hard after that though. BTW my penis is a major player in my MMO's with aneros or aless. In particular gentle pressure on my sulcus (cock cleft) under my cock head adds huge sensations to my prostate. Toggling my nipples and massaging my sulcus sets up a ping pong match of orgasms between my cock and prostate. I never ejaculate. Gentle massage of nipples and sulcus and breathing will always turn into a 3 hour session. Indeed we are all different.
Thanks everyone for sharing. It’s comforting to know that some people experience what I am too. Maybe it’s the re-wiring process. I don’t mind that I don’t get hard because I am grateful for having discovered aneros and awakening my prostate. It’s changed my sex Life forever!
I am a user of 13 years. It helps if I am erect when I start but 5 minutes in I lose it. It usually takes me between 5-10 minutes from insertion to full blown super o. A long session for me is 2-3 hours. Usually at the end of 2 hours I get so turned on I get hard again. It is very difficult for me to remain hard after that though. BTW my penis is a major player in my MMO's with aneros or aless. In particular gentle pressure on my sulcus (cock cleft) under my cock head adds huge sensations to my prostate. Toggling my nipples and massaging my sulcus sets up a ping pong match of orgasms between my cock and prostate. I never ejaculate. Gentle massage of nipples and sulcus and breathing will always turn into a 3 hour session. Indeed we are all different.
That sounds so hot! and im straight! i woudl love to see a video of you doing that, but yeah i know its no gonna happen, right? 😀
@gnawdol , thank you very much for sharing your technique. Already the first try for less than a minute felt awesome. What I further would like to know is, do you use lube and what is your massaging technique at your sulcus? Your video is on my wishlist too, 😉
I am a user of 13 years. It helps if I am erect when I start but 5 minutes in I lose it. It usually takes me between 5-10 minutes from insertion to full blown super o. A long session for me is 2-3 hours. Usually at the end of 2 hours I get so turned on I get hard again. It is very difficult for me to remain hard after that though. BTW my penis is a major player in my MMO's with aneros or aless. In particular gentle pressure on my sulcus (cock cleft) under my cock head adds huge sensations to my prostate. Toggling my nipples and massaging my sulcus sets up a ping pong match of orgasms between my cock and prostate. I never ejaculate. Gentle massage of nipples and sulcus and breathing will always turn into a 3 hour session. Indeed we are all different.
Thanks for the suggestion of massaging the penis glands. I had a very interesting conversation between my penis and prostate in my last session. I had been looking for ideas on incorporating my penis in my sessions, and you just kick started the process.
Ha ha ... so far no videos. AS to what kind of lube I have been a confirmed condom method user for years. I but magnum condoms to ensure that there is plenty of room for movement of the tempo. Pressure is key on my sulcus ... sometimes gentle tapping. I find that orchestrating breathing, nipple stim and sulcal massage or tapping brings amazing sensations. Experiment with different patterns.