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(@polehugger)
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Hi all,

Prostate play newbie here, fortunate enough to be achieving Super-Os already, with a frustration to share and get guidance on. Now, I did check a bunch of stickies and several pages of threads, and only found one other thread wherein someone had the same issue. Unfortunately I didn't really see a resolution there.

First, I feel I must briefly explain my technique to give context. I can't do hands-free; I must basically fuck myself with my Helix Syn. It's the combination of anus and prostate stimulation that gets me where I need to be. This means no "stopping the pee" kegel movements whatsoever, but rather the opposite; "relaxing" the same as gently pushing out a bowel movement. Problem is, the stronger I orgasm, the stronger I push. It's not something I can control. Eventually I'm pushing so hard I can barely push the toy back in....and eventually I'll poop all over the place as a result.

Now, I did my research beforehand, and have always evacuated my rectum before a session, but that is not enough. I must do a full-freakin-enema first, which takes me about an hour. Only then can I enjoy myself without a mess.

Does anyone else have this issue? And has anyone found a resolution other than a resigned fine-I'll-do-the-whole-damn-enema-every-time?



   
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(@theplaything)
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Try using a 220ml bulb douche. Three squirts and you're done! Should be enough for you to avoid your poop problem and it'll only take 10 minutes - or even less - to carry out.

http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AA505-Enema-Bulb-Red/dp/B002SKG8GU/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1457422652&sr=1-2&keywords=douche



   
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(@polehugger)
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Yup, have that. Takes about eight of those, three times, to get the job done.



   
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(@mo_bosco)
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I'm no expert, but I don't think you're on the right track. Sounds like just anal orgasms. Glad you are having a good time though. Perhaps you should try some of the techniques that, over time, will allow for non poop, prostate, and full body orgasm sessions. Even more fun, less mess.



   
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(@mo_bosco)
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Sorry @Polehugger, didn't see your earlier post on do nothing.
I still think the whole body orgasm is a good goal. It doesn't involve much pushing, pulling or tensing. So, it's passive and soo much more powerful. Check out the stuff @neros has posted.



   
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(@theplaything)
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Are you drinking enough water/tea and eating enough fiber?

Also do you have IBS?



   
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(@badger)
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I use to do the enema routine, but it took up so much time. Now, I just wipe thoroughly until the paper comes up clean, shower (soaping up a finger and washing the outer sphincter and rinsing out), then probe with a flushable wet-wipe until they come out clean. Rarely have an issue; actually, I don't remember when I had an issue.



   
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(@wulff)
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I use to do the enema routine, but it took up so much time. Now, I just wipe thoroughly until the paper comes up clean, shower (soaping up a finger and washing the outer sphincter and rinsing out), then probe with a flushable wet-wipe until they come out clean. Rarely have an issue; actually, I don't remember when I had an issue.

Never done the enema routine but I just do what you do, Badger and I don't have any problems.



   
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(@polehugger)
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Thanks for the feedback.



   
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(@brucemarkland)
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95% of the time I am clean inside.....I am not going through the enema thing for the 5%.....shit happens



   
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B Mayfield
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Polehugger,

It should not be necessary to evacuate your entire colon prior to an Aneros session. What you've described sounds like you're using rectal contraction vs. anal contraction to effect some form of orgasm. As MO_Bosco suggested, I too think you should consider a method utilizing less force. While I have recommended rectal contractions in the past, it's generally been in some combination with anal contractions. Fact is, a subtle, and more passive approach has generally proven to be the most productive for most users. That said I understand that you're experiencing results as is and probably feel reluctant to reinvent the wheel here. Still, if you're after the full whole-body orgasm of the Super O, I think you're going to need to explore a different path. Doing so may take some time, and your results may not be as accessible in the short term. But in the process you'll discover something even more powerful and leave your bowel evacuation problem behind.

As a side note, I have some concerns about using rectal contractions like this for extended periods of time. Overexertion in this region can often to lead to the development of hemorrhoids. So be careful how much force you use.

Cheers,

BF Mayfield



   
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(@polehugger)
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Sorry to necro this thread, but I think it merited an update. I do recall seeing another thread about a similar problem, so hopefully someone down the line will find it helpful. Also wanted to follow up and thank you all once again for the feedback, which did help.

Hi Mayfield, although I missed your response the first time, I had did have concerns about the extended rectal contractions. Since my OP, I've been changing my routine significantly, putting 1-3 hours into a more passive approach, with success, which is getting slightly easier each time. I've found that the most challenging part for me is the breathing; in fact my breathing seems to determine pretty much everything. Of course for this I do not perform a full enema first, just a normal rectal vacation.

Earlier MO_Bosco mentioned I might have just been experiencing anal orgasms only. That was a helpful observation and helped me to familiarize myself with how my various sensations were happening. Turns out it was definitely both anal and prostate -- one would blend into the other, which made it hard to fully identify at first. Now it's obvious.

Sometimes I wrap up my session using my old method, for comparison. I can confirm both can reach the same level of intensity, but the forced one doesn't last as long and is a bit mitigated by the strain. In fact, at this point, after being able to be so comparatively relaxed and ecstatic, my previous method feels more like, um, extremely pleasurable pooping. Funnily enough this ends up not being messy when preceded by an hour or more of relaxation.

Being relaxed has also allowed me to explore nipple and perineum sensations, which have also been productive. So, win all around I suppose.

Thanks again.



   
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