Hello everyone,
I looked through the wiki/forums to see if anyone had a similar experience but I couldn't find anything so here I am sharing with you what happened last night
First a small backstory, I started using anal massagers about a year ago and am finally at a point where my contractions start after just a few minutes and I can orgasm from it (no super-o yet just dry/mini-os). What helped me most was learning to consciously relax my PC muscle. I have always been trying the "do nothing" approach and I started to notice that my pc muscle would involuntarily tense up after the anal contractions have started (basically when a dry-o/mini-o was about to happen). This involuntary contraction would kind of "reset" the progress. So I learned to control the pc muscle and not let it tense up just to ruin my progress.
I did this by (traditionally) masturbating really slowly and with a really light grip (holding the penis with just two fingers, also no Aneros inserted). As the pleasure was building the pc muscle started to tense up just like it would with prostate stimulation. So I tried to consciously relax that muscle and let go. Gradually over time, I gained more control to the point where this relaxation could last through a traditional orgasm making it way more intense and longer lasting than I was used to experience. This whole technique made my penis way more sensitive than it used to be to the point where I would just need to hold it in my hand (while ever so slightly pulling down the foreskin) and it could end with an orgasm (ejaculatory I must add), perfect!
Most importantly though I learned that if I bend my (moderately erect) penis down more than 90° away from the belly the pc muscle sort of gets "forced" to relax: It can't tense up for whatever reason.
(By the way, I am currently experimenting with abstinence and it looks like it is amplifying the overall pleasure quite a bit (after just 3 days) so I will probably write about it in another topic in the near future.)
So this is what happened last night:
I had a normal session like always (usually lasts 1-2 hours because I have to get up next morning) and after around 1.5 hours I decided to hold my penis and bend it like I described above. I was ready to end the session with an explosive super-T but what happened instead was mindblowing.
The pleasure started to build up in my penis and it was starting to throb really hard which felt amazing, also feeling the pulse with my fingers was extremely arousing. Now this is hard to describe but you know the feeling when you reach the point where you are about to cum? That feeling of tension right before the orgasm starts?
I was expecting it but it never came! What I got instead was a build up to a penile orgasm which would last indefinitely! For some reason, the ejaculatory reflex was not triggered.
Seriously, I was lying there squeezing my eyes trying my best to not make any noise since I don't live alone, and just had this throbbing shaft in my hand which was emitting extreme pleasure! Felt like time had stopped, was probably lasting 30-40 minutes. I eventually couldn't take it anymore, ended the best session I've ever had and fell asleep.
That's all I can remember.
I would with no doubt say that it was a super-o but instead based inside the penis!
I am going to experiment more with this technique and I will probably post an update next week.
Now it would be great if some of the experts here could share their opinions as to what may have been going on and maybe try to replicate it.
Also this probably only works for advanced users but I could be completely wrong so feel free to try it and share your experience, I would love to hear about it!
Please excuse any grammar mistakes, not a native speaker 🙂
“I was expecting it but it never came” is just like my experience today. Noted in “Exciting times.”
yeah these are fun! easier to do for a prostate newbie like me, but I feel like my aneros helped me get there, somehow it makes it very hard for me to ejaculate, I think it's the distracting pleasure of prostate and penis simulataneously. Even better, once I was able to do that, I don't really need the aneros to get there anymore, but it definitely helped my body figure out how to do that.
Really interesting method!
Tired it with failure, still ejaculated in the end. But it does take longer to end!
Hope you can keep us updated about your method 🙂
didn't work for me at all. however, you can get to such a state of sensitivity and arousal, that you will have a penile orgasm from stimulation before you hit the ejaculatory threshold. I think it has to do with the current state of your prostate myself. still, if I'm not subtle and strategic and just jack off without restraint, in any direction, I'll generally build up to an ejaculatory orgasm. I may have orgasms before I hit that level but it usually builds to that. But, being slow and subtle with my stimulation and trying not to bear down on the piss stopping/ejaculatory muscle until the orgasm hits, I can often have "endless penile stimulation orgasms". this is in a flacid state, if hard it's still possible to orgasm and ignore the urge to bear down on that muscle, but if you can't fight it (and you'll usually fail) you will most often ejaculate.
@jeykr, thank you so much for sharing this. I've always been into slow edging, but your method is unbelievable more effective. I only added one thing: standing at the sink I looked into the mirror, focused on my left eye. First I surrendered to my strong vibes forcing me to shut my eyes when overwhelmed by my upcoming p-gasms, but then I managed to keep my eyes open and while a wonderful superO raised up I watched my face blushing, my eyes filling with tears and myself surrendering to what I only can name an out of earth experience of bliss taking control of my whole being. And only describing this gave me another awesome chairgasm when typing the last sentence. I repeated it three times today and only had to slowly pull back my foreskin to get fully hard in less than 30 seconds. After only a few minutes first drops of precum appeared and I already had reached an ecstatic state of subsequent p-gasms and was watching my eyes filling up with tears of lust again until a next overwhelming superO came over me. Oh dear, I just now nearly went into a Super-T only thinking about it. You made my day, I'm tuckered out.
if it makes it easier to resist bearing down on the pc muscle, then it could be helpful. I'm quite sure this method is only for very patient and well trained individuals who are already good at resisting that pc urge upon orgasm. further, jeykr said he wasn't full erect at the time...that is key. if you are fully erect it is far more likely that you will ejaculate upon orgasm, and I think even people that are good at relaxing that muscle at that point will fail more often than not. Could be wrong? Let's hear from other users.
Looks to me the main new thing here is forcing the relaxation of the PC muscle via pushing the penis far far away from your stomach. I'm going to try that for sure.Sounds intriguing and I'm wondering how it works.
I managed to do something similar once and only once, it was with the peredise and it was awesome. I could masturbate my penis as hard or as fast as i liked but the orgasms only happened in my prostate. My cock was massive but still i couldnt orgasm through mastubration, just prostate orgasms for the longest time, i have neve rbeen able to reproduce it.
Your method i dont think i fully understand what you mean by it. i need a diagram or photo/instructional video? could you do that?
I had a similar experience many years ago that actually had ejaculation,i no store bought prostate device and still do not,some day i want to get an aneros,i had a gear shift handle from a riding mower,small shaft,big round ball about one and a quarter inch diameter,shaft was long at about eight inches down made a right angle turn.first time i slid it in my anus it felt incredible,the minute the ball popped in there was cloudy liquib leaking out my not even erect penis.one night i wanted to watch porn on my television so i tied the thing in my recliner,as i could sat down with it up in me,it went in to deep so i put pillows on each side,watching the video with a very hard erection,i was pushing down on the end of the turned up shaft with my foot causing the ball to push against my prostate,very intense throbbing in the entire pelvic area,in my balls,all the way up the shaft of my erection,i let out a moan and got scared then let the pressure off,my erection was standing straight up and twitching with every heartbeat,more cloudy liquid dripping out,my heart was pounding,very gently i started pushing down on the end again,moved my butt a little,scooted toward the front of the recliner,one foot on the footrest the other on the end of the handle,pushing down more,increasing pleasure,my hip and legs started to shake,pushed a little harder then one solid contraction pumped out thick white semen just one big wave of pleasure that sent one shot of semen out,i let of the pressure and just watched my erection still very hard the semen was like thick lava all over the side of my erection,again pushing down,uncontrollably shaking,nothing more,pushed harder,another one pulse and again more semen,let off thenright down again with another spurt,done this four more times sending shots sperm out now on my belly,so was this an orgasm .was i against my prostate,i do not know but done it many more times in the future.
...i was pushing down on the end of the turned up shaft with my foot causing the ball to push against my prostate,...i let out a moan and got scared then let the pressure off,... very gently i started pushing down on the end again,moved my butt a little,... pushing down more,increasing pleasure,my hip and legs started to shake,pushed a little harder then one solid contraction pumped out thick white semen just one big wave of pleasure that sent one shot of semen out, i let of the pressure and just watched my erection still very hard the semen was like thick lava all over the side of my erection, again pushing down, uncontrollably shaking, nothing more, pushed harder, another one pulse and again more semen, let off then right down again with another spurt, done this four more times sending shots sperm out now on my belly, so was this an orgasm. was i against my prostate, i do not know but done it many more times in the future.
From your description of events I'd surmise you accomplished a prostate milking and (depending on the depth of penetration) seminal vesicle milking as well. From your description of pleasure and uncontrollable shaking, very likely you also experienced a prostate based orgasm along the way. I'd recommend you do purchase an Aneros so you can learn to achieve prostate orgasms in a safe manner without fear of self injury. Good Vibes to You !
P.S. I sent you an introductory message with some additional hints and tips to get you started here. Click on your 'Messages' button in the Forums to retrieve it.
I’ve had this experience recently doing erotic hypnosis but didn’t really know how to describe it until this post.
Following the hypnosis procedure (lights off, headphones, undisturbed, breathing deep), things were progressing along really well. I never go fully “under” or whatever it’s called. I’m always conscious of my surroundings, just relaxed. After about 20 minutes, I started feeling the penile contractions that happen during ejaculation for probably 10 minutes straight. But all that came out was a huge load of precum. It was so much at once that I thought maybe I had ejaculated and not realized it. Trying to figure out what happened caused me to lose focus, so I just finished the old fashioned way. It was amazing but I wish I wouldn’t have lost focus!
for me ejaculation while prostate stimulation is added pleasure and it is amazing this can happen,even if it is milking the feeling of the semen oozing up through your penis is added pleasure,looking at all the prostate location pictures shows it to be in a valley,like a sunk in place on the front rectal wall and this valley is just after the anus muscles,if you are using something strait with no curve it might bypass the valley then after the valley is the Seminole vessel witch is very close to the wall and very sensative,but to get to the prostate you have go into this valley or you will miss the prostate,also if you miss this valley you can keep sliding in deeper then yoy are on the bladder and will start to pee.just the things i have experianced,i am no expert,years ago when much younger i was using prostate pleasure on a regular basis,then i got married and moved to a different location and stopped the prostate play for over five year,now i am starting back again.