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Easiest non-ejaculation orgasm to achieve?


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Before I explain, i do understand that everyone is different and time to achieve such goals vary person to person.

I've been on my journey since last February. Learning session to session but nothing past involuntaries achieved. My toys are helix syn, progasm, njoy wand, and some cheap amazon anal vibrators.

some things I have achieved, learned my connection of nipples to prostate/crouch area. Seperate muscle contractions of pc and rectal muscles. Location of prostate. Slight reaction to binaural beats.

Some things that need worked on, sensitizing my nipples more, trying to find perineum pleasure (I know location Of it but not really sensitive or reactive). Strengthening my kegels, being patient, and keeping a clear mind.

So back to my topic, what is the easiest orgasm to achieve besides ejaculation? Just something to achieve to know that I'm capable of something more. Personally I am going for nipple orgasms first as they seem the most accessible and most reactive.

What was your guys first orgasm type?


   
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...what is the easiest orgasm to achieve besides ejaculation?

First, I think we need to clear up an often conflated concept, namely that ejaculations are orgasms. Let us be clear in understanding that an ejaculation is a separate event from an orgasm. You can experience an ejaculation without having an orgasm and you can have an orgasm without experiencing an ejaculation. Most men learn to associate the two events because they typically occur coupled together through normal sexual activities but they are separable events. An ejaculation is simply the expulsion of seminal fluid from the body, regardless of its causality. So...What's an orgasm? is a more complicated subject to define, somewhat akin to asking "What is consciousness?"

Just something to achieve to know that I'm capable of something more. Personally I am going for nipple orgasms first as they seem the most accessible and most reactive.

If your nipples are sufficiently sensitive, gentle stimulation may induce orgasm(s) so by all means go for it! It's impossible for any of us to say if those will be easier for you to achieve than some other category of induced orgasm, the bottom line is learning about your body and fine tuning your technique to achieve orgasms. This may require many hours of adventurous experimentation. @BigGlansDC, is our resident Grand Master of Nipple Diddle, in the post Nipple stimulation resources? he lists a number of reference sources and I encourage you to check them out to expedite your learning.

What was your guys first orgasm type?

I think I had my first dry-O through penile stimulation around the age of 11 or 12, shortly thereafter I started experiencing orgasms with ejaculation.

Good Vibes to You !


   
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So back to my topic, what is the easiest orgasm to achieve besides ejaculation? Just something to achieve to know that I'm capable of something more. Personally I am going for nipple orgasms first as they seem the most accessible and most reactive.

That's a tough question because everyone is wired a little differently. What's easy for one might require more focus for someone else to attain. For me, calm seas super O was the easiest and I actually had several hundred mind-breaking full body ocean of eternal bliss type orgasms before I even had my first muscle clenching dry o. I guess my brain was ready way before my body was. I'm at the point with calm seas super O's that all I have to do is lie down and have a simple thought of "I want to cum" before my body does all the work for me. A lot of guys are the opposite and really had to work for what came accidentally for me. I guess what I'm getting at is that you should experiment with many types of stimulation and follow the one that feels best. Then if you don't orgasm, at least you felt some good stuff. Trust me, you'll make a lot more progress if your goal is to just feel good rather than judging success based on whether or not you orgasmed.

What was your guys first orgasm type?

My first few wet dreams were prostate orgasms when I was around 13 or 14. I didn't realize it at the time and only until I experienced some prostate orgasms as an adult did I understand what they were. When I started masturbating, the first half dozen times were dry o's. With Aneros, my first orgasms as mentioned above were calm seas full body super O's which continue to grow and evolve nearly every session. It's like my orgasms have an experience bar like in RPG's and after enough pleasure has accumulated they level up.


   
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@bensor310, I believe you are on the right track in discovering the intimate connection of your nipples with your genitals. I encourage you to continue stimulating or diddling your nipples.

I found two main styles of nipple diddling to be most effective: (1) Soft and deft stroking with with a finger or a thumb back and forth across your nipples, and (2) Circular strokes around your nipples on your fleshy aureoles which are also sensitive.

Nipple diddling is quintessential sexual touching which you can perform on yourself or a partner any time of the day. I enjoy diddling my nipples in bed in night when darkness and quiet enable to focus on this beautiful sexual touch. The more you diddle yourself, the more you will felt it reflected in various parts of your genitals: your perineum, the base of your ball sack, and various parts of your cock shaft, all the way from your cock root to your Glans.

Mutual diddling is certainly power as a bonding mechanism for sexual partners, just as effective as oral sex, coital sex, and anal sex.


   
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This wasn't the first non-penile orgasm I experienced but this is a good one that taught me aless anytime:

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/how-to-have-a-less-orgasms-almost-instantly-male-vagus-nerve-orgasms


   
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