I'm trying to find mine, based on the instruction in the wiki ( http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Understanding_Your_Body#Sweet_spot ), but no luck. I'm also going based on half-remembered instructions from another website (Mr. Racy, I think?), that says to work on the "pit" between the edge of the anus and where the tough, meaty part of the root of the penis ends.
I'm not sure, but I think my sweet spot may be blocked. there's what feels like a real thick tendon in that pit, like a line of sinew with a small knot partway through, and pressing on it doesn't really produce any significant feeling. It's about right where the P-tab of every aneros model i've ever used would press.
My experience with the sweet spot is that it only becomes sensitive and pleasure-giving when it wants to, or if it's somehow in the mood. Like sometimes if my prostate and anus are really engaged and feeling good, the sweet spot will join the party... but the rest of the time it's practically dead.
I've half-destroyed many of my aneroses moving the p-tab back and forth because I think I've discovered where the sweet-spot is... only to move it back in the opposite direction again.
The take-away I have is: worry about it later.
One time I did manage to make myself orgasm/ejaculate by massaging that area with my fingers, which took a long time... maybe doing this would help you zero-in on it.
Does every man have a "Sweet spot"? ... I'm trying to find mine,...
Similar questions have been raised on the Forum before (see Having trouble finding my sweet spot, I can’t find my sweet spot!! , Aneros too deep to hit prostrate sweet spot?, How important is the "sweet spot" really? & Help a newbie find his sweet spot ) just to name a few. The whole perineum area is sensitive with a concentration of nerves about the genitals, so in that respect, yes every man has a 'sweet spot' area but it may not be so specific that you can precisely locate it.
Good Vibes to You !
My sweet spot is also very elusive, and I rarely notice it. However, sometimes during sessions that aren't taking off I reach down to find that the P-tab is way off to the left or right, and by moving it into the middle, I start getting a lot more sensation. But even then it is rare that I can actually discern the specific sensation of the sweet spot. More like an addition to the general pressure/pleasure happening down below. Also I read somewhere to pull extra perineum/scrotum skin (from the direction of your testicles) under the P-tab, and when I do that I get a sensation boost. But it's hard to say if it is from my sweet spot or just from general pressure... In any case for me, not being in touch with my sweet spot hasn't hindered progress at all.
This Prostate Cradle thing definitely puts pressure on a spot that feels good, but i'm not sure it's the sweet spot. Maybe this is one of those things that becomes more pronounced as I move along with rewiring.