Do you think you're sexy?

Everyday day of my life.

Posted by: @reddog152

I had a fantastic session this morning that included 5 or 6 ALESS Super-Os, each of which being precipitated by one thought; "I an one a sexy motherfucker!" 

I would look down my body as the P-waves started, taking in the sight of my chest heaving with excitement, nipples erect, abdominal muscles writhing, penis twitching with every pulse of my PC contractions, hips bucking into the sensation. I was overcome with the internalization that my body is beautiful!! As that thought entered my mind I was wracked with the most intense Super-Os. 

Have any of you ever been overcome by the same thought? 

Me too, but no motherfucker thoughts and my body is not beautiful or sexy.

You have to respect and love yourself before anyone else can do the same. This aspect effects us mentally and physically and ironically even sexually. 

Unfortunately, no. Might be the reason I'm not having an easy road with aneros.

@pirontras feeling sexy isn’t a prerequisite for pleasure, though it probably helps.

Sexiness isn’t necessarily about visual esthetics. I for one don’t have the sexiest body, nor does my wife, if we are talking mass culture airbrushed standards of sexiness.  And given the mean age of this forums members, most of us probably won’t land on a GQ magazine cover next to the word sexy.  Sexiness is about so much more though.  It is about how we move, the sounds we make, the smells of our bodies.  But sexiness transcends even that. I think it is a state of mind, a mental wave one can surf.  I surely conflate eroticism and sexiness, but whatever.  In states of high arousal, I assume positions I feel are sexy, they make me feel more sexy, I get more aroused, and so on.  So yes I know the feeling of feeling sexy, even when physically my body is a wreck, because sexiness for me is a mental game.

Posted by: @divine_o

@pirontras feeling sexy isn’t a prerequisite for pleasure, though it probably helps.

Sexiness isn’t necessarily about visual esthetics. I for one don’t have the sexiest body, nor does my wife, if we are talking mass culture airbrushed standards of sexiness.  And given the mean age of this forums members, most of us probably won’t land on a GQ magazine cover next to the word sexy.  Sexiness is about so much more though.  It is about how we move, the sounds we make, the smells of our bodies.  But sexiness transcends even that. I think it is a state of mind, a mental wave one can surf.  I surely conflate eroticism and sexiness, but whatever.  In states of high arousal, I assume positions I feel are sexy, they make me feel more sexy, I get more aroused, and so on.  So yes I know the feeling of feeling sexy, even when physically my body is a wreck, because sexiness for me is a mental game.

Spot on! This is exactly what I had in mind when I wrote the original post. I also remember reflecting during that session on the wonder of the human body. All of the complex systems, and especially the complex of nerves that convey the pleasure. 

@divine_o very true. I agree 100%.

I feel sexy when I'm totally shaved, I use the trimmer Schick , the only trimmer that shaves to smoothness. If I have hair, I don't want to have sex like that. 

Posted by: @cassy0110

I feel sexy when I'm totally shaved, I use the trimmer Schick , the only trimmer that shaves to smoothness. If I have hair, I don't want to have sex like that. 

Me too. I keep my pubic area, shaft of my penis, ball sack, perineum, and anus shaved. I've never had much hair on my legs and recently started shaving what little hair that I do have.  I keep myself caged and when I look in the mirror and see my hairless lower body and my caged and compressed cock and swollen balls, I get turned on and feel sexy.  Then I slip on my men's bikini underwear and finish dressing. It's a super mind fuck for me knowing what's under my street clothes as I go about my day.

@studmouse47 how do you shave your anus?? Do you go to some salons??

Just a word of caution about shaving your balls guys. If you nick yourself down there, it's possible to have Fournier's gangrene. Do an image search! Though I'd like the totally smooth effect down there, trimming to almost skin level suits me better. Using a liquid soap with shea butter or similar softens the remaining hair to be nearly undetectable to the fingers, yet give "feelers" that convey movement - think "extension" of feeling the scrotum...

@ghusa I use a Norelco electric groomer.  It comes with interchangeable blade guards that allow you to choose how close of a shave you desire.  I don't shave as close as one would when shaving the face.  Shaving to close leads to ingrown hairs. There is a little stubble around my anus and pubic area.  There is no bush left in either the pubic area, cock shaft perineum or anal area, but the areas are left nice and smooth. When shaving around the anus and the perineum I have to use a mirror and do some acrobatics to get things the way I desire.

@pablito1963 I'm extremely cautious when shaving my balls.  I grip the sack making it bulge. I use shaving cream and a double-bladed safety razor. I have to go slowly and not exert much pressure on the sack as I run the razor across the sack. Things come out hairless and nice and smooth.

@studmouse47  gotta tell you - broke out into a little cold sweat there reading that!

@studmouse47 you are brave my friend.