Did not understand but now I know

I too know of this frustration and made lots of mistakes, not had orgasms yet though but feel I'm on the way finally, getting close! still don't know what a mini o or dry o feels like.

What do you do in your sessions? or rather what changed to get you to where you are now?

Congrats as well by the way! 🙂

I ordered a helix syn and also eupho syn and have been using them regular,also have the pro jr and was getting great feelings from the jr.it seemed to be because of the hard material,I was having good orgasms but it was wearing me out,so I got out my helix classic and began using it with shorter sessions about an hour and things began to make progress.,like I said this is what works for me hope you find the one that works for you.

Cool man sounds good! I just meant in terms of contractions or methods you use, do nothing etc. awesome man!

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I have made a lot of mistakes and some are when lying on my side and things start to feel really good I would start to draw up in a tighter ball ,and when lying on my back I would arch my back.i started doing some new things and this has helped me a lot .I cross my hands over my stomach and this reminds me to continue to breath by feeling the rise and fall of my hands also reminds me to not arch my back and stay relaxed.My sessions have improved greatly in the past few months,I have gone back to my helix classic and pro jr.and have started having orgasms like I have never had before.I have heard people say if they could just get over the edge and I have felt the same way and even tried to use the muscles that we have when I ejackulate but this does not work. Over the last 4 sessions I have learned that being on the edge or on top is where you want to be . When I get on the edge so to speak that is when my body is totally relaxed and it is great to just stay there and I will slowly fall in to an orgasm.This is the way my journey is at this point.

Ok great it's the falling into orgasm part I can't seem to do, there must have been a time where you couldn't either bad then 'you just' or you did something different perhaps?