Hey guys,
25M here and I am looking for some advice regarding my problem with DE. Been sexually active for a couple of years now and infrequently have sex. I have ejaculated from oral sex sometimes but normally I am only able to do it from masturbation.
I masturbate to porn a lot and I would ejaculate at least once a day, sometimes even a few times in one day.
Besides cutting back on the porn and masturbation, will using an Aneros product help with my problem?
Probably not. The Aneros orgasms generally do not involve ejaculation. Many men, in fact, use the Aneros with the intended purpose of learning to stave off ejaculating during traditional sex.
I differ in opinion. When I started the Aneros journey, my frequency of ejaculations went up, not during the sessions but afterwards. You may have the same effect. Give it a try.
The Aneros journey to hands free, non ejaculatory orgasms has cured my porn addiction. I needed the brain stimulation (Dopamine, Serotonin) as much as anything. Learning to access the pleasure within may address your needs without having to masturbate to porn between sexual experiences. Mixing P spot or internal orgasms with traditional ones can help your overall sex life and can dramatically help with overall happiness. At least that's been my experience.
The Aneros journey to hands free, non ejaculatory orgasms has cured my porn addiction. I needed the brain stimulation (Dopamine, Serotonin) as much as anything. Learning to access the pleasure within may address your needs without having to masturbate to porn between sexual experiences. Mixing P spot or internal orgasms with traditional ones can help your overall sex life and can dramatically help with overall happiness. At least that's been my experience.
Whats the diference between 'P spot' and onternal orgasm?
For me the P spot is approximately where my prostate is located. It's where the pleasure ache sensations usually appear first. Internal O's can start there, occur there, or may appear anywhere in my pelvis and then spread to my whole torso or body.
So @crazyphuka what you are saying is happening to you is that you begin to orgasm but your ejaculation doesn't come out right away? Maybe a few orgasmic pulses occur and THEN the cum comes out? This happens to me a bit. The last two nights of sex with my wife this happened: I pull out and then stroke myself to orgasm and two major hard pulses happen, and then cum shoots out on the third pulse. Sometimes it comes out on the first and that is most often a majorly huge cumshot. But when it's delayed, the semen actually makes my prostate and everything else keep orgasming for a long time, and I'll have an orgasm that spans over 30+ seconds and sometimes it goes on for almost a minute. Intense, but sometimes it lasts too long.
However with aneros in me, when I have a traditional orgasm/ejaculation with the toy in me, there is almost never any delay and the cum is forcefully ejected out of me, and ALL of it is released. It's a bit uncomfortable to remove the aneros when I'm done, but if I pull it too early it really is a shock!
I completely understand what Aneros/prostate massagers are all about and how they are used. I've been using Aneros since 2004 and I'm well aware of it's joys, pains, problems and revelations. However, I do not and can never believe that the aneros is a "one-way only" toy and should not be used for anything else except a "hands-free prostate orgasm with no stimulation of the penis whatsoever." Put that bad boy in your ass, jerk off and cum harder than ever before! Or, put it in and relax and have prostate orgasms. Or, use a dildo and milk your prostate of every last drop. Our orgasms (and ejaculations) are multitudinous and exciting and so many pleasurable combinations can be had with these wonderful life changing toys.
@techpump, well said. So much fun to be had in many different ways, situations and occasions, we need to free up an have pleasure otherwise we waste our life!
There are some cautions, good hygeine and be guided by the bodies capabilities.