Darwin, Answer This

the question of female orgasm has been covered by various science writers and thinkers. i have my theory. sex feeling good makes us do it, both male and female. female vaginal orgasm can induce male ejaculation, so it has a purpose. though, what is more mysterious is female clitoral orgasm, which doesn't necessarily happen from intercourse.

i have also put forth my whack-job theory of why we men can have such profound orgasms from anal stimulation. i speculate that in our hominid past, there was a lot of social bonding formed by male-male intercourse. and, there was a clear dominance relationship. the penetrator was dominant, the recipient subordinate. the subordinate orgasmed because it drove him to accept the penetration, and because it induced orgasm in the dominant. the stronger the subordinate's anal orgasms, the better it felt to the dominant. this (somehow) led to fitness advantages to the successful subordinates.

it is profoundly strange that we can have the intensity of response we do.

darwin

Hey @WallyBanger,

phew, that's a lot of questions. First of all, as far as I know, there is no definitive answer to any of those but a vast amount of theories (and opinions anyway). I'll throw in my two cents:

- Why is prostate massage so fucking wonderful? For hours on end, with the Aneros in the end, the pleasure continues, like no other. Is this a vestige of the genes that make the female organism?

- If so, is the anersos orgasm anything like the female orgasm? (Try setting up an experiment ot provde that one!)

Well the most intriguing theory I found so far is, that orgasms are a common trait amongst all (or at least most) living beings. So it's likely very deep in our genes - much deeper than the male/female distinction. Just remember the stages that a fetus has during pregnancy: on the way we have a tail and even gills - it's our evolutional path quite literally. The male orgasm is very developed in terms of how fast one can reach it. That's an evolutional advantage because mating makes you very vulnerable to attacks (e.g. from a competitor). Most apes for example have a way shorter average mating time than humans. Now comes the interesting part: Some scientists believe, that females only have orgasms because males have them. Let me explain: Women dont "need" orgasms, but they are so important, that they lay so deep within our genes, that they just don't "sort out" when the sex/gender is settled in the womb. The counter example would be nipples. Men absolutely don't need them, but they are so important for women (and the species in general), that they are developed in the womb before we develop as male or female - so they stay with us.

About female orgasms. Like Super-O's (and unlike traditional ejaculatory O's) they generally come in all shapes and sizes. But females and males are more alike than we often think. The orgasm from the clitoris is more or less the equivalent to the male penile orgasm. They often also have energy-drop due to the drug rush and need to recover too - just to a shorter amount. The G-Spot orgasm would be the equivalent to the prostate O and not so many woman are able to achieve this. There is learning (and dedication) involved, that's why there is a lot of defensive and even aggressive controversy amongst women, if the G-Spot / vaginal orgams actually exists (same with squirting and the like). In contrast to men, women seem to be more accustomed to fact, that their orgasms can differ quite a lot. So the distinction between a "regular" and "Super-O" is not so obvious for them. Funny thing is, that many aneros-newbies have a similar issue just the other way around. Small orgasmic events are often overlooked because everyone just looks for the big firework.

There is a superb article about this whole male/female topic, I found here in the forum some months ago (a must read): http://www.sss-now.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=263 .

- Why does getting rewried, getting massaged in the prostrate, make my nipples so sensitive to exstacy, like they never were before? Why does stroking my nipples with my hard middle fingernail cause the groin to spasm in sympathy?

- How is that becoming rewired has created a link between nerves of my face, lips, tongue and lower neck, all coupled to the prostate and penis? Now, I can make my tongue move so it creates a sensation that my dick is being licked.

- When I get things just right, and my shincter beings moving the Aneros in and out on it's own, why dos that cause an erection and ejactulation.

Because arousal and orgasms are a brain thing and a nervous system thing. We tend to think in spots and buttons, but these sexual hotspots are "just" interfaces which alow us to interact with the nervous system and the brain. Imho, arousal and orgasms are a general trait of the nervous system and hence can get build and triggered wherever one has nerves. So practiacally everywhere. To rewire means to train the brain and nervous system to accept new stimuli as arousing (and hence starting the arousal/orgasmic protocol). You can push this so far, that you don't even need to touch yourself but can meditate yourself to orgasm.

- What is the evolutionay advantage to such an ocean of orgasms that do not lead to procreation?

Imho, that ocean of orgasms is an exploid of our sexual system. The fast male ejaculatory orgasm has the evol. advantage and is the norm for a reason (for like 99% of all men). I'm not quite sure, but I guess not everything needs to have an evolutional advantage to persist. It's often enough, when it's not a drawback.

Cheers, Unfug