Damned horniness;)

Hi Beachboy7,

I was struck with something when I was reading your post. You said that you:

Sometimes, I feel my prostate swell, as well as my perineal area. My dick gets hard sometimes, and my filthy thoughts cause a tingling in my stomach . In my opinion, these are signs for making progress, but where are the really pleasant feelings?

Don't fall into the same trap that I did when I was having these pretty decent sessions only I kept thinking in my mind that there was this "huge thing" that I was not experiencing. The thoughts of what was not happening was keeping me from truly enjoying what was happening.

You follow up with the comment:

I have to cum the traditional way every time, because I feel so heated.

There must be something good happening if you get an erection and get so heated up that you need to end your session.

To sum it up, it appears as though you are making some real progress here and might have that "Super O" built up so high in your mind that frustration on not being able to obtain it might be getting in the way. It did for me, so I am speaking from experience here. There were many steps in this process for me. As I look back, they all make sense to me now. Hindsight is always 20/20. Enjoy every session for what it is. It is almost as though my body needed to get used to the idea of every level that I went through. It is almost this contentment that will bring you to the next higher level. Enjoy yourself.

Good luck.

Hi Beachboy7,

Don't fall into the same trap that I did when I was having these pretty decent sessions only I kept thinking in my mind that there was this "huge thing" that I was not experiencing. The thoughts of what was not happening was keeping me from truly enjoying what was happening.

Hi Buster,

thanks for your quick reply! My question is: What are the feelings your didn't notice because you were too distracted by thinking about the Super-O?

I noticed that, if I let go as much as possible, I can feel a sensation, similar to excitement and perhaps euphoria, in my stomach. When I concentrate on this feeling and maintain it, the stimulation from the aneros gets another touch. Then, it is not only felt as neutral stimulation of a sensible spot, but more sexual and satisfying. Can you relate to this feeling?

Hi Beachboy7,

It is not that I did not notice them, it is that I did not enjoy them as much as I should have. This tingling sensation in your stomach is just the beginning. I know of many others (me included) that had everything start with the sensations in the stomach. From there, it spreads. It goes down and it goes up the body. Your body will naturally coax it when it is ready. Sounds strange, but that is how it happened with me. It was almost as if my body was calling the shots on when it was ready to experience more.

I have a suggestion that worked for me and might for you. When you feel this need to end the session because you have become so worked up, just keep going. I have had some of my best breakthroughs when I had longer sessions. I remember countless times thinking, "I am so glad that I did not end it back then".

I can relate to everything that you have said. It is an exciting time for you now and I remember that stage vividly. Everything is new. You are on the path BB7. Go into your sessions with the thought that you will be happy if you all you get is the stomach sensations. Enjoy them because it will change and get better, you have got plenty of time.

Take care.

Thanks for the encouraging words, Buster. I will make progress sooner or later!

Best regards:)

Hi Beachboy7!

I agree 100% with Buster on this.

As they teach in KSMO, "ANY" good feeling is actually an orgasm of sorts! Even the tiniest tickle or throb is a tiny "O", so treat it with importance . . .

Just observe this fledgling orgasm and embrace it, but don't scare it away with a "big old" contraction . . . instead, let it come to you like a fawn in the forest! Just knowing it will grow to full size and power with some time and attention!

As I always say: Breath in slow shallow lower-tummy breaths, relax and observe this magical phenomenon! Smile and give it your attention and Patience.

Sounds like you may want to back off on the number of traditional orgasms as well . . . you have the power "within" to gain control over your body, if you really desire to!

You are on the correct path! (Just enjoy the Journey!)

Later, Hlaser

Thanks, Hlaser for the confirmation of what I have suspected for awhile. Those warm sensations have always felt like very mini orgasms. Your description of how to nurture them is very helpful! grateful