I have about 10 sessions so far each one last on the average of one to two hrs. I can not feel it on my prostate, yesterday I decide to use my hand to control my helix, as soon as it my contact I felt a tingling that was very nice, so I then let got of the helix and started my contractions and again not feeling anything. I feel my prostate may be closer to the front of my body, I'm I missing something here, I have spent hrs of reading the wiki and the forums, tried different positions different levels of contractions, and not feeling a thing unless I use my hand to control it. Can someone help, any suggestions.
aneros_user49900,
You may first wish to read this archived post (#10) from member 'Trojan', his comments may be applicable to many new users learning about anal play in general and Aneros use specifically. Your comment is not unusual from new Aneros users, many men have felt that their physical anatomy was somehow uniquely different such that they could not initially feel the Aneros' massaging action. While that may be the case in very few instances, most of those same men have continued on to experience wonderful pleasure sensations and Super-O's from their prostate massagers. For some men the "rewiring" process may seem rather foreign and confusing. This process involves your "awakening" your prostate, listening to your body, becoming more attuned to the many subtle feelings being generated and then gently nurturing those feelings into heightened physical and emotional states. The good news for you is you have felt pleasurable sensations (P-waves) already, albeit from extra manual pressure. Your path now is to refrain from the manual manipulation and simply utilize your Pelvic Floor muscles to maneuver your massager. Your prostate will respond to this gentle stimulation, just as it does to the more forceful stimulation. In fact, in time it will respond more profoundly to the gentle stimulation than to the high pressure tactic. You just need to focus and become more attuned to the subtle micro sensations initially produced from your sleeping prostate. You are learning to seduce your prostate rather than bludgeon it into submission. Patience, relaxation, attunement and arousal are the foundation for building a good Anerosession. Please take a second read through some of the tips I previously sent you via PM.
Hi rumel, thanks for responding, I will surely look over all the info that you have sent me. Its nice to have people like you that are willing to help others, thanks again