Can I start rewiring before I can buy an aneros?

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While I'm sure many of us have also tried other things like toothbrushes, screwdriver handles (personal favorite), I try not to use anything other than Aneros because of the potential for exerting too much pressure and bruising my Prostate.

You can start the rewiring process by learning how to contract your PC muscles, the ones used to control urine flow, as these muscles are a very useful part of your journey once you purchase an Aneros. Be patient and gentle with yourself and in time you will be on the path of the Aneros experience!

TG

Actually it's the interplay of BC (what you'd use to suck something up your anus) and the PC, but I wouldn't worry too much about that now.
The easiest way would be eating hash( I don't know how easily it's come by in Turkey?).
Jerk off, take your time the longer you last the better as the area you'll be focusing on will be become more sensitive and easier to recognize, then ejaculate....
If you've eaten the hash the area will be sensitive for hours and depending on how often you do this, days....
From this area comes all the pleasure, from this area you can intensify the sensation and spread it around the body.
All the Aneros does is make it easier to stimulate this area, but if you eat hash, no Aneros is needed and what's more, because you have nothing up your asshole you have a greater range of motion and this is essential when giving expression to the orgasmic feeling in your body.

Until you can tune in to the more subtle inner body sensations knowing how to contract the BC and PC muscles is as useless knowing only the alphabet to read a (foreign) language.

@Theme_Gasm

Thank you!

@Ehm

Thanks for the information.

Drugs really don't seem like a good idea to me.. I have no idea how to
get some in Turkey, and I'm afraid I could get addicted or be subject to
health risks.

Even if I did eat hash and activate my prostate, would the effect be permanent? Or would I have to continue eating hash to enjoy myself in this way?

Maybe I can practice contracting my PC muscles with a toothbrush inside. Once I slept with a toothbrush up my butt and felt something like prostate orgasms in my dreams. They were pretty long and focused in my butt.

That aside, should I avoid touching my penis at all and focus only on anal play when masturbating? Strangely enough exclusive anal masturbation without ejaculation is kind of satisfying. But eventually the urge for a traditional orgasm gets too great in a few days.

Anyway, there is something else I want to ask. If I do manage to activate my prostate with an aneros or something else, can I benefit from the effects when I'm having sex with anohter guy? I want to be able to come from being the passive partner during anal sex.

Oh @CityDweller! You can definitely enhance your orgasms through aneros use as a passive partner with a man during anal sex! I don't know if this will help you cum from anal sex alone without you or your partner stroking. I don't cum during anal sex unless I am stroking and I've heard most gay men don't either. A good reference book for you is Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin PhD. You may find it in your library or I know Amazon has a kindle version so easy to keep orivate. Using a aneros device as described here in the wiki has made me much more able to experience anal pleasure, anal orgasms even, just by itself. It sounds like you've already had some anal pleasure so you will have a head start when you finally get the aneros. Are you already sexually active with men? Can you have a friend order a aneros for you? I know It's often an issue with young men who live at home to have privacy for riding a aneros or even storing it safely. And being gay or bisexual at home is even more complicated. As for preparing, I think fingering yourself is the safest if you can reach it. I can't so I'm going by hearsay. Don't sleep with anything in your ass as you risk injury if you move the wrong way during sleep. Let us know how you're doing.

@euphemistic

I don't have any sexual experience, and never had a boyfriend. I think I'm pansexual, but I exclusively prefer guys. I want to leave this country to find a lover abroad. And I would really like to reach orgasm from being the receiver of anal penetration, without any stroking. In fact, that's even more important for me than those full body super orgasms. I suppose my priority is intimacy over pleasure 🙂

Thanks for the book reference! I'll try to get it somehow.

Anal masturbation is sort of like hit or miss for me. Sometimes it feels very good, other times not that pleasurable. I do it mostly to increase the pleasure I get from traditional masturbation, and the emotional rush of course. But over the years it has been getting a little more pleasurable over time.

I don't have any friends who can get me an Aneros.. If somebody found out they would be spreading rumors to cause me trouble. Even if I somehow got one, I don't think I could hide it anywhere. Maybe inside my computer case as my parents are technophobes 🙂

Tell them it's a new kind of computer mouse 🙂

I wish you well in your several journeys. I really sympathise with your situation. I was raised in the 1950s USA where the reality of being found out for being homosexual could have forced me to be lobotomized, undertake EST, aversion therapy or worse. I just hid my real nature from my family and myself until I felt it was safe to come out. We've come some way in the USA with tolerating gays in the decades since but it's not so long ago. There still exists fears that distort our sense of ourselves and our relationships for all men, gay and straight. Here in the US the antigay stigma of liking anal play is still enough to scare young men who live at home, even if they are completely heterosexual.

I don't know what it's like in Turkey but I imagine it's very hard for gays. It's hard for me to imagine needing to immigrate out of my home country just to be myself and love who I want. I hope you can find some happiness and fulfillment before being forced to make that move. I'm sure there are others like you there. I hope you find them.

Addressing your original question: I was prepared 14 years before I even got an Aneros. My original experience came from a desire to have more forceful orgasms by practicing anal and PC muscle exercises like long-duration clamps and rapid contractions. One night during a jackoff session, I got this amazing buzz radiating through my ass. My mind was blown. A while later, I heard about Aneros, what it can lead to, and I longed to have one. Some users here don't care for the contraction method, which is fine for many people. Contractions work great for me, and the more exhausted my ass is, the better my session goes.

I think in preparation it would be good to see if you can have some fun isolating the various pelvic floor muscles. There is a whole heap of them. One of the special ones is the BC muscle. It's the one at the inner end of the penis. Just tighten it lightly and relax it a bit with an erection. There is also what seems to be a muscle surrounding the Prostate but without an Aneros it may be hard to find. Also see if you can really relax the BC muscle when you ejaculate. This may help you move to a less stress shoot and be good preparation. There is also the 'pee' control muscle. I would not over contract any muscles. There is a lot of fun to be had, and all of the above will bring a good blood flow into the pelvic region for its health and vitality.

I call what you're referring to here "Prewiring." Getting familiar with your body before owning an Aneros is what I'd recommend to everyone who might buy one.

Spend some time learning how to fully relax your body - then spend some time in that relaxed state experimenting, getting familiar with the muscles associated with urine flow. Don't hold any contractions or your breath - do what feels natural, what feels good.

Happy Motoring, and Welcome.

The tactile sense of the finger is the best tool available for learning about the anus and prostate. Do some exploring.....see how the various muscle groups work in relation to anus. Try some of the things you read here in the forum, just use your finger as the Aneros. Good luck and have some fun.