I can understand arousal is the key to a successful aneros session. But, I am tired and distracted by watching porn to get in this arousal state. Do you guy's have any recommendations for building arousal besides porn? And, do you have a special mindset or train of thought not to involve penile simulation?
@Orgasmic19 it's amazing how quickly your mind can develop a good fantasy selection when you stay away from porn. Practice by remembering the good porn clip you remember and build your fantasy on it. Porn will quickly be a thing of the past. Your own fantasies help you appreciate every sensations your Aneros tool provides when in a session.
Good luck and good vibes!
Do you guy's have any recommendations for building arousal besides porn?
Yes, while porn is probably the most commonly employed media form for generating arousal there are numerous other avenues for generating arousal. In the thread Identifying Facilitators to Progress Arousal, Sensuality & Relaxation are discussed. In the Muse Music group thread there are links to audio files which are not only intended to compliment one's Anerosessions but to enhance your arousal level as well. Additionally there are some links to audio hypnosis files specifically intended to generate erotic arousal. There are more esoteric approaches such as certain breathing practices (see @Unfug 's recent post in @smudgefish 's Breathing thread). There is also the KSMO protocol, you may find further information about Jack Johnston's "Key Sound Multiple Orgasm" protocol (KSMO) at his website!
... do you have a special mindset or train of thought not to involve penile simulation?
Not really, penile arousal may occur without direct stimulation and I think it is counterproductive to try to suppress your body's natural responses. That being said, not indulging in the urge to go for manual stimulation will help accelerate your rewiring to the prostate based orgasm. Good Vibes to You !
@Orgasmic19, as just commented to another post: I myself love porn and enjoy masturbating to porn but concerning Aneros and Aless sessions I would find it a sheer distraction. Instead I only ...
Perhaps my latest experiences described in my blog post "I kissed myself! And I liked it!" may help you too, cause it's all about getting aroused by thoughts and imagination only.
Good vibes and please keep us posted.