Hi everyone, I've been lurking for awhile but decided it was time to share my story so far.
My journey started about a year ago when I started on a SNRI for my anxiety. The medication has done wonders for my anxiety, but has had one unfortunate side effect. Formally it is called aorgasmia, but in straight talk it means that it just about requires divine intervention to come. Scouring the Internet for advice I came across this website and was very intrigued.
I bought the Helix, which although uncomfortable at first, after a few tries I had a session where the Aneros became quite comfortable and I no longer felt the foreign object sensation. Eager to know if my condition would be helped by the Aneros I masturbated and marveled at the warm sensensation seeming to come from deeper inside, at the very root of my shaft. Within a couple minutes I came very hard, and was totally taken by surprise with a sudden awareness of the anal contractions I would later learn are a natural result of orgasm.
The next step was finding the courage to talk to my wife about my new found toy. She was really supportive and actually very curious about the Aneros. She suggested we bring the Aneros into the bedroom next time we had the opportunity. We did and I found intercourse amazing with the Helix inserted. Missionary was a little awkward in that the Aneros seemed to go from comfortable to uncomfortable with the gyrations of my hips, but the feeling was amazing. Each time I entered my wife an electrical charge seemed to travel down my shaft into this hidden place near my balls. For that night alone, the Aneros gets my absolute endorsement. Since then the Aneros has not been quite as effective during sex as it was initially, but it always gives me a boost which often does lead to orgasm.
So after about a year of playing around here and there with the Aneros and other toys I've decided to get serious about the Aneros "journey". Currently I find that after insertion, I immediately begin to feel some light pleasurable sensations. A couple minutes later there is usually a pulsating pleasure that ebbs and flows, like a fluttering feeling in my anus and sometimes deeper inside. I also seem to sense movement of the aneros, but touching the p-tab it doesn't feel like its moving at all. After about 30 minutes of varying intensity, the pleasure waves will vanish. If I change my position (usually I start on my side as the instructions suggested) I can sometimes reignite the nice feelings. Other times the session goes cold, and the feelings do not return. I've also tried holding a very subtle contraction, and then gradually increasing the pressure over several minutes. This also produces the pleasure waves, but after about ten minutes when I've maxed out the contraction, the feelings subside.
All of the above was a very wordy way to ask a basic beginner question, but how far along am I? I've had very little if any leakage, and these pleasurable sensations seem restricted to my pelvic area. I have not been a regular user however, so I'm hoping at least once a week will start to produce new experiences.
Now they say that reefer is a gateway drug, and maybe the same is true for the Aneros 😉 Curious about anal play, I have tried a variety of other toys over the last year. I've felt intense sensations on par with the Aneros while using plugs, but usually more so during insertion. Once nestled in there, the plugs produce a nice feeling, but not the pleasure waves I've experienced with the Aneros. One interesting side effect is that since I started using plugs, any kind of anal play now leaves me with a lingering 'echo' that lasts throughout the remainder of the day. Usually quite faint, this echo can be very pronounced at night when I go to sleep and at times has felt as if I still had the Aneros inserted. Recently after a few days straight of daily sessions, I found it hard to sleep one night because my anus would not stop lightly pulsating!
Well longer post then I had planned, thanks for bearing with me! The bottom line is I really love the Aneros, it has changed my sex life for the better and introduced me to the wonders of anal play. I'm looking forward to discovering new experiences during the next year :):)
Congratulations paneros,
Great post and thanks for sharing with the Forum. I started much the same way with the Helix as a foreplay/intercourse tool. I've had a great start on my journey, now into it's second year. May you and Mrs. p enjoy all the delghts this journey may offer you.
rook
Hello Paneros,
And welcome to the Aneros forum! 🙂
Thank you so much for sharing your story here. No worries about the length. It's nice to see people have such good results when the super-O is not even attained at that point. And how lucky you are to have a wife that is supportive and wants to be a part of your Aneros journey. Feel free to continue to contribute here as you are inspired.
Love_is
Thanks guys for the warm welcome! I'm looking forward to another Aneros powered session with Mrs. P tomorrow. I've also decided to check out the Hypnaerosession CD, so I'm looking forward to giving that a try as well. Onward and upward 😉