I am new to anal play and a new user of the aneros. I decided to purchase the vice because the vibrator appealed to me lol. Anyways I've had about 4 sessions and I find that on my stomach is the best position for me. I haven't felt any mini or dry O's yet but I felt some pleasure from it but every time I keep contracting I ejaculate and session over. Even when my penis is facing towards my feet I somehow manage to ejaculate. Is there any other tricks to stop this from happening so I can focus on those dry and mini O's and work towards the super O. Ive thought about purchasing a jock strap with the cup attachment thinking that will keep everything in place and help avoid penile stimulation? Any suggestions?
Suggest taking out the vibrator and just relaxing. Some say the vibrator can be distracting when you want dry orgasms. Read the wikis for more information, http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php.
I've got one of those Hitachi wand clones with a G-spot adaptor, and I have to say that it's distracting for me and there isnt really any feelings on the prostate, compared to just relaxing with the Helix or Progasm.
Although maybe some men have better luck with vibrators - a reddit thread suggested that vibration is one way to wake up the prostate - though it didn't work for me.