I have not posted in some time, ive been enjoying my discoveries from aneros, but i would like to make a note about aneros after sex. My wife and I have a toddler, so sex is limited to say the least, and during the time we dont have sex I use my aneros. The sessions are good but recently ive started using it after sex. There's a lot of threads on here discussing semen retention and not ejaculating so i figured there was no other way to have a good session. I was wrong, so very very wrong. The best sessions i have ever had are after sex. Feeling things i didnt think i could feel. While i understand semen retention perhaps some users might find some incredible sessions after ejaculation. I know there is not a science to it but relaxation comes from ejaculation and that is probably the main attribute in a great session. I never do it right after sex, but a few hours after. This allows time for the cooldown and for the return of vigor. This in my opinion is truly the best time to experince the aneros. Hopefully some others can share in this experience!
Hey @Qwerty1234 I have also noticed that the day after sex I can have amazing sessions also. I have also had amazing Aless sessions following sex with my wife. I have also done retention for 10-14 days maybe longer at a time and I still get amazing sessions. So I guess I am fortunate that an ejaculation doesn't hinder the amazing sensations I get either Aless or with an Aneros.
I feel as though worrying about that for beginners might be the right course so that they can keep up their arousal levels. But for experts i think the feeling is so different and easy to spot for us that its not neccessary to retain semen. Maybe its an age thing, im 27 so getting aroused isnt really a problem for me. So an hour after sex or masturbation im good to go again.
Hey @Qwerty1234, I'm 49 and it isn't a problem for me either! 😉 You are fortunate to have learned this so young, you have a lot of years ahead of you!
I would agree with beginners avoiding ejaculation to keep arousal up as you said.
I have been on this forum for a long long time .... before there was chat. Somewhere back there in the bowels (no pun intended) of the forum there were a series of posts about the best sessions occuring within 12 hours after a thorough ejaculation. I have found this to be very very true. This and breathing are the two ways i ensure a deeply intense session.
I'll give it a try sometime.
It allows me to focus on just my prostate. Especially with only an hour or two later. I can keep my arousal up but without an annoying erection the whole time. The erection only comes when, well i do lol. Then itll go away and rinse and repeat til im done. Ive been at this for 2 years now and ive come such a long way since i first started. But no matter how long i seem to be using the aneros theres still so many mew things to try out.
I also have found that semen retention or abstaining from my previous pattern of penile masturbation doesn’t really help. Rather than build arousal, it just builds frustration.
So far, all of my best sessions have been within 12 hours of ejaculating - the best of them all was a session I started only about 20 minutes after cumming. I do think there’s something in the theory that ejaculating clears out the mind and allows for a greater degree of relaxation.