Aneros after ejaculation

Yeah I've had sessions like that. Not being "in need" of any particular outcome can be freeing. It's not something I do regularly, since the desire and horniness can also be a big positive, especially when it manifests itself as prostate arousal. But I think it's a worthwhile experiment for sure.

Posted by: @jiji2000

Alot of people always say to substain from ejaculation to make the sessions better.

That does prove true in the beginning to help kickstart rewiring. The problem for most people is once they ejaculate and the hormone cycle shuts down,they’d struggle to build any arousal for a session after.

Posted by: @jiji2000

Yesterday had sex twice and then went straight into an aneros session and had one of the best of my life.

I’ve had sessions within a few hours of sex before. I find it’s then more of a mental game to make it work.

Yes, after masturbation/ejaculation (being in a sexless marriage), an Aneros session can be very fruitful as there are no expectations going into it.  You think 'what the hell, I'll try anyway even if I just came' and sometimes the results are surprising.

Posted by: @ggringo

You think 'what the hell, I'll try anyway even if I just came' and sometimes the results are surprising.

That's right. I've done a session in the morning and ended with an ejaculation and then done a wonderful session in the afternoon, just a few hours after the morning session.

And this morning is the first time I left my Aneros in place after an ejaculation. I didn't leave it in for long, about five minutes, but I still had one or two good orgasms after ejaculation.

@morexp it seems a refractory period does not affect prostate stimulation.

I have tried that a few times since I started using the Aneros. After a particularly good penile ejaculation, I have been getting butt buzz pretty heavily, similar to what I get after using the Aneros. It feels like it's absolutely begging to be stimulated. But inserting the Aneros seems to drain all of those feelings away. It's like it locks you into expectations for me. I end up giving up every time. And then the butt buzz comes back. What a diabolical game!