Every so often i get little breakthroughs, most of the time though they seem to be things i can never recreate in subsequent sessions, this one was so unusual that i doubt in can come back, we shall see.
Today i had my first intense dry orgasm (and one big one after) i beleive it was because of changing lube from shea and coconut to excessive amounts of KY jelly lube. I also used the second to smallest peredise after using a helix syn and eupho syn to little effect.
I also lay on my front and I made sure that there was a gap under my penis and thrusted a little and there in a weird looking position i had my first dry and fairly intense orgasm, cock throbbing and feeling incredible, moaning etc.
This stopped working after the orgasm, my arousal dipped until i tried doing other positions, i then go to my mirror and for some reason start jerking. This is where the most amazing thing happened. I was orgasming like crazy, hot, intense, my vision blurring, my cock harder than ever but it didnt 'transition' into the feeling of "im about to ejacualte" it was just like i was wanking my postate (like my penis wasnt my penis). The orgasm was constant and wouldnt stop, so big and so long it lasted. I felt i was going to have the biggest orgasm/ejac of my entire life but it just wouldnt let me (thankfully), just some drips of pre cum.
By this point i was so turned on i could not stand it, the feelings though subsided and then after a time i return to this jerking technique but this time the feelings are 'muddier' somehow, and this time i ejaculate and it was the crappiest orgasm. I have never felt so overjoyed at my progress and so, so pissed off at myself for not stopping and letting my brain and body process these new sensations.
I am in a never ending cycle of this and i am sick to the back friggin' teeth of it. A real duality of feelings!
Not that anyone seems to give a gnats chuff but the amazing part of the whole experience is the fact that it was the peridise, not a prostate massager that massaged prostate. The peredise.
I feel this now needs reassigning. The peredise IS a prostate massager, deal with it!
so my thinking was tru!
im going to order some new lube and see if i make progress aswell.
so my thinking was tru!
im going to order some new lube and see if i make progress aswell.
I had this thought many times even one guy that was like "OMG i changed to coconut oil and i had my first orgazmzzzz omggg!!!111" and then i did the same, and nothing changed. Don't get your hopes up. I also only used a perdise, which is what is odd, its not not a massager.
Congrats sorena on the experience. I think I made that statement that the peridise was the game changer for me. At month 16 using the smallest peridise with do nothing method I was slammed with sensation after about an hour. Ever since then it's been a growing experience. A month of peridise and flipping helix sun and classic and now they have become ultra responsive and in fact put more pressure on the p spot. So go wi the it and keep training with it now for the next mon that see what happens.
thanks sorenaso my thinking was tru!
im going to order some new lube and see if i make progress aswell.
I had this thought many times even one guy that was like "OMG i changed to coconut oil and i had my first orgazmzzzz omggg!!!111" and then i did the same, and nothing changed. Don't get your hopes up. I also only used a perdise, which is what is odd, its not not a massager.
Thanks i wont be to excited but im planning my next move so that i wont stay stuck at 1 technique.
il try the peridise tonight, lets see if it gives any good feelings. Havent used it for while.
wow! congrats on your new experience you should be excited, but i sense a lot of bitterness and frustration. I am no expert but i think you need to relax and go with the flow. Just because someone comments on a lube or a devise does not mean it will work for you. I think you are on to something if you had your first dry O and your wanking experience. Just relax and enjoy and do not be so angry about everything and I think you will be off to the races. There is no magic bullet or technique that works for everyone. You need to figure it out for yourself, but enjoy it dont expect it. Like i said before I am happy for you and you should be too.
Not that anyone seems to give a gnats chuff but the amazing part of the whole experience is the fact that it was the peridise, not a prostate massager that massaged prostate. The peredise.
I feel this now needs reassigning. The peredise IS a prostate massager, deal with it!
You are right, the peridise hits the prostate to a certain degree, but far less then the other devices (because it was not designed for that purpose). But maybe thats exactly what you needed - less direct stimulation. For me this was def. the case and a major milestone after my first 4 years of helix only. The helix was just too much to get the subtle feelings going, because it is so agressive and anything but subtle.
Nowadays I get good results with the helix, but it's still a wild beast to me and works only with the do nothing approach. Any more pro-active engagement over-stims and numbs everything down.
So long story short: congrats and keep training with the peridise. There is a good chance, that this will unlock your body further and might enable you to get new sensations with your other devices.
Cheers, Unfug
Not that anyone seems to give a gnats chuff but the amazing part of the whole experience is the fact that it was the peridise, not a prostate massager that massaged prostate. The peredise.
I feel this now needs reassigning. The peredise IS a prostate massager, deal with it!
Any more pro-active engagement over-stims and numbs everything down.
So long story short: congrats and keep training with the peridise. There is a good chance, that this will unlock your body further and might enable you to get new sensations with your other devices.
Cheers, UnfugThis would explain why the helix/larger devices would work immediately and then the feelings cut off and never to return until hours later when the prostate 'wakes up' again after being overstimulated. The helix syn though was better for feelings and lasted longer than the normal helix, possibly because its a softer more gentle material so stopped this overstimulation, to a degree.
I don't see this happening to others, so you can see how hard something like this is to troubleshoot. Its even harder when i can get the beginnings of something incredible that i want more of but cant because of the instant switch off effect during the first 5 mins of a session, people tell me that its psyhclolgical or mind chatter, when i know within myself that it is something else.
Peredise is the key for me, will keep training with it so that it readies me for other devices.
@Sorena I seem to have my best adventures and sessions AND prostate orgasms with smaller toys. Even the peridise! I know it's not technically a prostate "massager" but it really is:
When the muscles of your anus/rectum contract, they pull a toy, any toy, into your body. The muscles also change the position of the toy, and the changed position makes it move against your prostate. The peridise is for sure, absolutely less direct than the helix or other aneros models with a P-tab. the great thing about the peridise that I've found is that is simply has no P-tab, and it doesn't go off center. All the "business end" of the aneros models with P-tabs are centered perfectly; yet my prostate is very round and makes the aneros slip to either side of it, and the P-tab rolls to either side of my perineum ridge. so years of not being centered I believe kept me from prostate orgasms for over 10 years.
But the peridise can be amazing when not looking at it through a "prostate-focused" view!!! It DOES move against your prostate when the muscles in your ass contract, and those subtle, maybe more "gentle" feelings are what your prostate really likes and wants.
I LOVE the description of your experience above, man that sounds divine!!! I am sad that the ending was crappy 🙁 But that's okay, next time give it a shot and now that you have knowledge of what it was like you can possibly get past that and have an explosion like never before!!!!
Congrats Sorena, I know this road has been one that's been at times unpaved, but you've got a crew out there working overtime to set down new asphalt for you so you can skate down smooth and sure 🙂