I am needing some advise, I get to the point of what I think are p waves but can't get past that cause I loose control of the progasm and all feeling subside. I repeat and never have the feeling of completion.
@Proyes First, congratulations on your achievement of p-waves. If I may make a simple suggestion: prostate stimulation is not a "race" --- you don't have to experience anything except just to relax in the moment. If anything happens, great; but if not, cast it aside and enjoy what you've experienced. While feeling the p-waves, does your mind drift? Are you able to fantasize about something sexual? You may find that if you stop concentrating on the Aneros, you may begin to experience a deeper pleasure, one which you cannot control. Can you feel anything subtle building up? It doesn't have to be extreme at first. Throw your expectations to the wind! Good luck on your journey!
Thank you, that helped feel like I got a little bit closer
Agree with @goldenboy. I'am on the same stage as you are @Proyes - after 2 years. Lately I tried the 'no expectations' mindset. I think it's normal for human to get more and more excited when the pleasure rise and then your expectation rise too. This is counterproductive. I try not to get too excited and fantasize about something else and forget about the Aneros-tool. It helps! Good luck