Choose your age range.
A) 18-25
B) 25-35
C) 35-45
D) 45-55
E) 55 or older (please specify)
For the younger gents, how do you feel about using the aneros, how has it helped you?
For the.... older gents, what age were you when you found the aneros and do you wish you would have found it earlier than you did?
For everyone, how did you find out about the aneros, how have you kept a secret (if you have), and if you have told anyone, how did they react (who did/have you told)?
Aneros has helped me explore myself at a young age of 19. I came here for the 'stronger orgasm' and stayed for the deeper experience you have with yourself.
I found Aneros at the age of 65 and I wish I had found it many years ago. I discovered it though the videos that are out there and then came to the web site reading the forum for a good year before my first purchase. In all my sexual life orgasm and ejaculation were the same thing and Aneros has given me the ability to separate the two. Orgasm for me is now such a mind and body experience that my journey with Aneros now reaches a much greater satisfaction level.
I'm 26 but I think I was 24 when I first got my MGX. It's helped to redefine the concept of an orgasm for me (and gave traditional orgasms a less privileged position within the new system). After a particularly good session, I feel extremely peaceful and love everybody and everything. It's a great meditation tool.
43. about 4 years ago but wish i had found it when i was 18.
I am now 55 and started with aneros when I was 52. Took me some 2 years to reach super O. But it was worth it the journey. After I reached SO I had to share it and wrote a blog here on aneros.com. It is about what worked for me and how I did it...
I was 38 when I found it and of course I wish it had been sooner. I've kept it secret which has been relatively easy to do. Not in the greatest relationship so.....
And if she found out I don't think I would really care.
This has been a wonderful journey so far and in no way a substitute for relationships but it is an amazing experience none the less. No I've told nobody about this.
Ahh I missed the second part of the question. I first read about the Aneros in a Maxim magazine in my teens and was a little curious at the time but never could have imagined that I would actually use a butt plug hahaha. Then, I gradually became interested in the idea of pegging, wondered if it felt good, read some forums by people who enjoy it, stumbled onto this forum, and decided to try it out. I'm glad I did and I'm extremely grateful to the pioneers of the prostate massage who gave advice to the newbies (B. Mayfield, darwin, rumel, etc.). I'm single so keeping it a secret is no problem. I would probably never tell anyone about it but I don't think I would lie if someone asked (not sure why anyone would, though). I wish I had the courage to tell my friends because I think they're missing out (unless of course they do it too and are too afraid to tell me lol).
Leave it out on the coffee table when they come over to play xbox. Then we can make it a conversation piece 😀
LOL ya, and they might even give themselves away by asking "is that an Aneros?"
34 years old here, gay.
Bought an Aneros about 10 years ago as I was intrigued by the idea that
it would move on its own and you could orgasm without touching
yourself. After a few months of trying, I gave up. Sometimes revisited
it and would jerk off with it every few months.
Then got more interested in it about a year ago, and gave it another
try. Within a few weeks, had my first hands free dry orgasm(s) and
super o's. Other than a dry spell a few weeks after that - which lasted
a few weeks, it happens whenever I want it to pretty much.
I wish I hung in there in my early 20's, but I know I should be very thankful for being as young as I am (34) and knowing the secret of male multiple orgasms.
Last summer when I first had my first success with the multiple orgasms,
my partner was out of town and due to return in three days. For that
three days, my prostate was buzzing and I was so excited to get home
from work every day and spend a few hours enjoying the new found
pleasure 🙂 I had planned to keep it a secret (not sure why), or wait
for the right time to discuss it with my partner. But when he got home,
he took off his shirt (he's hot) and I got really turned on and started
orgasming right away on my own, fully clothed, A-less. So secret was
out and turned out he already knew how to have multiple orgasms for a
few years, but didn't play a big part of his life.... it does now since
we both know each others buttons and can have hours of fun together.
Even though I'm open about sex with my friends (typical with gay guys), I
haven't shared it with anyone else or discussed it with my friends.
It's helped me clear my mind when I'm alone and having a session. I can
meditate and lose all thoughts as I can just concentrate on the ache or
pressure I feel in my butt 🙂 I'm truly present, which I wasn't able to do with meditation that didn't involve sexual feelings.
As for sex - it's really improved since I discovered multiple orgasms. I
last a lot longer in bed, and my best super o's are during sex - and my
partner likes the feeling of me orgasming/thursting while I'm inside
him. Before I'd have to thurst for a bit, stop, thurst for a bit,
stop.... commonly called edging. Now I can thrust for a bit, slow down,
orgasm, keep going, orgasm, keep going, orgasm... it's a lot more fun
for me, and especially my partner. During the strongest orgasms, I just
relax and let my body do all the work - and the orgasm seems to last
for like 2-3 minutes sometimes (typically they last about 15-20
seconds). So those are the special ones.
Thats my two cents.
I'm 38. I still don't consider myself old, but yeah, I wish I had found Aneros about 20 years ago. ...Or at least not as anal-phobic as I was back then. Life is so much more fun since Aneros opened that world of pleasure ^^
I discovered Aneros during a random search for alternatives to prostate medication (I don't have any problems, but my dad does). Reading the stories about Super-Os made me curious enough to try one. I don't hide my Aneros use, just like I don't hide being a furry, but I don't advertise those facts either. I have talked to my dad about Aneros in terms of its health benefits. And one good friend knows I use them for fun. That's it though. ...BTW, I have to thank the furry community for making me open-minded enough to read the stories on this site in the first place. Without them, I would have just glanced at this site, laughed, left and forgot about it.
52.March 2014 was when I discovered Aneros. Wish it had been much earlier 🙂
My wife is very supportive thankfully.
Im 41 and of course I wish I had found out about it earlier. Though I think I was 36 when I purchased my first model. I kept my aneros use secret from my wife for a few years. She is very vanilla and I didnt think she would understand. When I did tell her she was upset I didnt tell her from the beginning but we discussed why that was. Now that she knows she really has no interest in my using it sadly.
I am almost 57 and found out about the aneros from a article on MMO when I was 52. I am just glad I found it
I'm (currently) 31 and found the aneros over a few indirections approx 6 years ago. My girlfriend back then had a very strong sex drive. That was pretty cool - we harmonized very well and pushed us to new heights and kinks. But after, like 3 years of relationship it started to bug me, that she got so much more out of it. The orgasm-count was like 1:6 each time. The amount of time spend to pleasure the partner with full attention was a felt 1:1000! It was just unfair and I don't wanted to supress my arousal anymore but bring it to new heights like she did. So I web searched MMO and stumbled over a book by B. Keesling where she teaches a PC-clench based supressing technique. Over further searching about the PC I eventually found the Aneros.
I was into buttplay with my ex-girlfriend long before, so there was no reason for hiding. With my current partner I played with open cards from the start. She is very supportive and is responsible for quite a few "first times" (first nipple-o, first streaming ejac. through perineum massage ...)
I'm also open about the topic with my two closest friends, but somehow they never bothered to start that journey too (or did not tell me, who knows).
I think I found the aneros at just the right time in my life. I just wish the time from start to first super-o would have been less than 5 years!
I'm one of the young ones at only 23 (24 in 2 weeks!), I started one year ago, and just recently have started having mini-o's, a few dry o's, anerosless mini-o's, and perhaps the very tip of a Super. Things are getting better and better, and I can't wait to see what the future holds!
When I was in my mid-70s my wife and I attended an HMO workshop on 'mature sex' for seniors. One of the topics was the 'male g-spot' and it's sexual sensitivity. The next day we went online and bought a brand-name ano-rectal vibe to enhance our foreplay and my orgasm. We soon became convinced of it's potential. Regrettably, it frequently fell out or I would eject it at the wrong moment. My wife is a bit of a 'cleanliness booster' and isn't a fan of stray anal appliances that 'wander about' amongst the sheets and pillows.
The vibe experience spurred a visit to an adult "bookstore" where I asked the clerk about prostate toys that would 'stay put' during sexual foreplay. The clerk suggested a Helix (classic) and it's become a 'keeper' alongside several other Aneros toys. Now, nearing my eighth year as a member of the "Aneros fellowship" I value all facets of the experience. My Urologist gives Aneros use some credit use for arresting my worrisome BPH.
I don't believe in wishing history was different and prefer to give thanks to my current health and ability to chart my own course in life. So, no regrets that I didn't discover prostate massage and dry-Os at an earlier point in my life. The occasional blessing I receive from mind-blowing and spiritually enhancing Super-Os are frosting on the cake !
I've shared my experience with a small handful of close Golf and Bridge buddies. When the H950 model came out I presented one to each of my sons (now entering their late 50's).
I see no need to go out of my way to conceal my ownership/use of Aneros toys and there's usually an Aneros or Peridise tool hanging in my shower. So, count the housekeeper and an occasional house guest among, "those who know."
When the H950 model came out I presented one to each of my sons (now entering their late 50's).
Rook, how did your sons respond to your gift? I'm thinking about doing the same for my sons (they're in their 40's)
I'm 25 and using the aneros for 2.5 years now.and enoying every session but stil no mind blow orgasms
@Bobandy These gifts were made with some words to the effect that each was old enough to appreciate Prostate health from a Medical point of view. I sent each to the HIH website along with a reminder that an annual Uro visit is important regardless of whether it's covered by insurance or not. Both expressed thanks.
One kid seemed mildly detached and I've not followed up with him. His brother happened to spy the vibe capsule for my Vice on my nightstand and mentioned that he had one 'just like it.' (indicating that he made it beyond the HIH website.)
These guys are "thick as thieves" so I would imagine that they've traded some personal notes.
I'm 43 and on my journey for 1 year now. No one knows of it. I read about anal play a year ago. There are several toys, but the Aneros kept coming back as the best in reviews. So Ivtried the helixsyn. I love every session. No super O's so far. Still riding with pleasure.
Am 85, with KSMO and Aneros training history over 12 years. The sessions are out-of-this world. Better than anything ever before. And still getting better! Don't use, or need to use any aids, Aneros devices or drugs. Those are the best sessions.
Am always looking forward to planning the next visit to orgasmic Nirvana.
Take it from me, age is a non-issue.
i am 54 first tried aneros eight years ago and gave up quickly and threw my device away. Did the same thing a couple of years later. What was I thinking? I just did not have the time or the mental capacity back then to get things going. I have recently started again with great success and making good strides. I do wish i would have known about it earlier and definitly wish I would have figured it out eight years ago when i started. It seems so easy to grasp now, I guess that just shows you have to be ready for it and let it happen. My wife got me started eight years ago from a article she read about prostate health.
Have been a member since '07, and a user just before that, and am now 55, with nerve damage from DDD, and osteoarthritis in the bottom three joints in the spine. I wish I had gotten one several years earlier.
I first discovered anal pleasures with a set of pleasure balls on a string; rubbed it around the outside, pushed in one, then the other, found out how pleasurable it was to do the bicycle on my back with my feet in the air, and went for a run. WOW!! No orgasm, but it sure felt good and made me super horny. Later achieved an anal O from a cheap plastic vibrator kneeling in front of the toilet (produced a prodigious amount of pre-cum and semen). Felt guilty and refrained for several years.
Several years later, I had read something somewhere about prostate massage (have had BPH since my very early twenties), and used a knife handle in the shower (one of those smooth, round ball-ended handles on a butter knife). Gave up on that after a while, and discovered Aneros many years later, reading every single post. Finally bought one and then joined the Forum.
By this time, I was having a fair amount of back trouble, and it slowed my anticipated progress. I believe I finally had a Super-O laying next to my wife; a second O was starting when my wife stopped it by kicking me (my shaking had woken her before she was due to get up). I even had the sensations of something washing over my body. It felt wonderful.
Then one session, I could sense a cold spot deep in my body above the Aneros, probably near or in my prostate. This cold grew as my back trouble got worse.
By '12, I had a major spasm requiring a visit to the ER, and ended up having the bottom three vertebrae including S1 being fused together. Afterward, any form of success became less frequent; I haven't had a random spasm during a session in nearly a year. The last time I had a dildo session, I had a difficult time achieving an O.
But yet, I still try to have a session about every other day, mostly to keep my Kegels toned, which helps me from losing control of my bowels when peeing.
Interesting but biased poll:
Each of the first categories span 10 years.
The last category and the most interesting spans 30+ years.
It breaks up into 55 - 65
65 - 75
75 - 85
We have a few in each of these slots. I suspect there will be more in one than another and a good proportion of those have initially come in for medical or lifestyle reason. I did. Probably most of these then found a pleasure level as well not necessarily a SO, I have.
So the poll is problematic with the majority undefined in the 'too old' group!
Just my cents worth.
I'm 34 now, and have been playing around with anal toys on and off for like 10 years in the search for other experiences. I found the Aneros products about 1.5 years ago, and only then made significant progress in the realm of non traditional orgasms. Big sensations are still very sporadic, but every experience is pleasant at least.
Keeping it a secret is not a big problem, since I've been single for way too many years now. The only person I told about the Aneros is my ex girlfriend, as she already knew I liked anal play. She thinks it is very interesting, but we haven't talked all that much about it.
I can't exactly remember how I discovered Aneros. It must have been when I was searching for sexual phenomenons like g-spot- and multiple orgasms. This fascinated me (and still does), and I found it unfair and illogical that this seemed to be a female privilege. I wanted to also have multiple and mind shattering orgasms like some females reported. Thankfully there must have been a mentioning of the Aneros somewhere, and now I know that multiple orgasms aren't "female only".
66 and a user for 3.5 years; tried all the devices except Progasm, Vice...have settled on Helix Syn, MGX, Eupho Syn and smallest Peridise. Can't imagine life without ANEROS!
I wonder who is the oldest member?