A Problem Called Desire

This may help seek the balance by working on the pleasure, or not:

Quoting from the Australian Financial Review
Aristotle put it a long time ago that "it is of the nature of desire not to be satisfied”
More recently Kent Berridge found why it is that ‘life’s intense pleasures are less frequent and less intense that intense desire.
1. He found that the brain chemical dopamine does not, as was once believed, produce pleasure - but desire.
2. Dopamine makes us desire something or some one, but the pleasure part of the equation is thanks to opioids and endocannabinoids - a form of marijuana that is produced by the brain.
3. The dopamine/desire system in our brains is vast and powerful, but the pleasure circuit is tiny and fragile, making it easy to turn on intense desire - but tricky to turn on pleasure.
5. Brains become sensitised to cues, many of us find the anticipation of something we desire to be more pleasurable than the results.

If we decease the desire will we be able to increase the pleasure - may be. This I think may apply to the prostate pleasure.