a 19 yr old's first try

Well, I just tried again. I spent about 2 hours on it and this time not as much happened. I really didn't pre cum much and I didn't laugh uncontrollably or have that exploding bomb feeling. I don't even think I had an erection. I know my anus felt throbby when I was pushing outward. That's about it. For some reason, I can't get that involuntary muscle spasm that everyone talks about. Maybe I'm not concentrating or relaxing enough. I won't try it tomorrow, but I will try it the next day. Maybe some time away from it will clear my mind for the next time I try it. Guess this will take some time to work and I'm willing to spend it. Any suggestions or comments?

Glad the Aneros made you laugh! I think there is an emotional connection we have with our prostate.

As for not getting the Super O yet, I'd just keep on keepin' on. Perhaps you're just trying to hard? The next session, just go along with what sensations appear and don't start to wonder if this is the big one. That'll kill it straight off. Just experience each tingle and quiver for what it is and enjoy it. Sometimes the big wave will hit you without much warning. I've found a darkened quiet room helps me to concentrate and relax. Try and "hear" what your body is telling you when the Aneros is inside. All those Super Os and waves of intense pleasure are waiting to be let out. The more you relax and let them, the more they will come.

Best of luck!

(And keep going!)

Originally Posted By: rorymuscle
Glad the Aneros made you laugh! I think there is an emotional connection we have with our prostate.

As for not getting the Super O yet, I'd just keep on keepin' on. Perhaps you're just trying to hard? The next session, just go along with what sensations appear and don't start to wonder if this is the big one. That'll kill it straight off. Just experience each tingle and quiver for what it is and enjoy it. Sometimes the big wave will hit you without much warning. I've found a darkened quiet room helps me to concentrate and relax. Try and "hear" what your body is telling you when the Aneros is inside. All those Super Os and waves of intense pleasure are waiting to be let out. The more you relax and let them, the more they will come.

Best of luck!

(And keep going!)

Thanks for your reply. I'll keep it in mind next time I tried it. The 3rd time I tried it nothing really happened. I'm gonna wait 3 days before trying it again...so 2 nights from now. I have noticed that during the day my muscles in my anus quiver involuntarily. Maybe that's a sign. If I can just get them to do that using it, I'm in. Hopefully when I try it next, I'll at least orgasm.

I've tried it a couple more times since my 3rd time......I think its like a total of 6 or something now. Same old stuff, not much new. Although, I've noticed something different that sometimes happens. If I hold the aneros in, like contract all the way and pull it in hard, my abdomen starts contracting and I can't control it. I try and stop but it keeps going and it feels sorta good. I don't know, but while the abdomen starts going crazy, my penis starts contracting in synch with it sometimes...other times its out of synch. I don't know, it's weird. I have also been able to get the building up sensation a couple more times, but thats it. I know something more is out there, but I can't get to it. It's like I have the puzzle pieces, but have no idea how to piece them together. Any help is appreciated.

Oh another thing I should add...once I get these abdominal contractions and pull out of the rectal contraction it sorta goes away so it's like I'm forced to keep it contracted...in other words it's not like I'm contracting and relaxing while doing this. Also, after the abdominal contractions stop, I'm wiped out and have to quit from being so tired.

I think this TOY it's the pits. Test yourself before you buy, that's what I should have done. Stick a dildo up your ass if you don't come you will not with this Toy either lol.

hey young guy don't quit yet. I remember when I first got my Aneros it didn't work like I thought it would and I was so ready to give up but I felt that I had to keep on trying and gald I did. I have had the most awsome orgasms ever with this thing and I love it. The most I have had in one sitting was 7 and I had many little ones in between. I love to also mastubate with it and when I cum it is just out of this world. So please keep at it you wont be disapointed.