I’m a straight 28 year old about 6’1. I am by no means a writer so I can only hope I explain my first experience well enough. Never made a post before but after a more recent experience I wanted to start with how I even started.
I have always shuttered at the idea of anal play, on my myself at least; always wanting to experience it from the deliverers angle with my girlfriend. It seemed that that was the way it should go. Well as I know now, I was completely off base. After a few failed back door attempts and becoming single again… not because of the attempts... I some how stumbled onto the Aneros website. I think I remember googling prostate health and falling into a typical web rabbit hole and ending up at Aneros. Curious as I had become about ass-play, never on myself, I looked around at these devices and my interest for delivering anal pleasure seemed to shift from delivery to reception. I dismissed the idea immediately and got on with my day.
After a while over a few months I kept going back and reading forums and testimonials thinking this thing has got to be something. Research done and other brands consulted I finally broke down and settled on a Helix classic. Nervous the entire time about how large it would be or how this would make me think differently about my sexuality, or even if I could get it in; I waited the 3 days it took to be delivered without canceling my order. Once it arrived I opened it and just laying it on the bed as I had a full day of work that day. I came back and even still got to nervous to try it. The next night I went out and had a few drinks with a friend came back and there it was. Just sitting there. In my much more relaxed state I lubed it, myself… passion all natural water based lube… and followed the instruction for insertion. Oddly enough after a bit of trial and error reapplication of lube and some patience it was in!
As a brand-newbie to anal play it feel like it was fairly large. This was the first thing that had ever been in my ass. Not even a finger. It seemed foreign inside and I just tried to relax as research had told me. 4 mins later or so it felt as if it belonged there and there was nothing strange about it. I went through a circuit of muscle exercises. Kegals and sphincter tightening, pelvic floor and leg positions. I had rolled over on my back after it felt comfortable enough to do so. This is when it really started to “work”. I could feel it pressing right behind my dick almost making it feel like I had to pee. From reading I knew I was in the right area. So I continued working through for about an hour with no success in p-waves or super O as I had read about. I know, all that story build up and seemingly a let down; but this post isn't about the first experience my second experience the next morning was quite different.
After a failed attempt the night before resulting in me removing the helix and placing it, cleaned, back in the box it came. I woke up the next the morning wanting to try again. Lube right where I left it on the side table I reached over and grabbed it lubed myself the toy and started the process of getting it in. To my surprise once it touched my opening it's almost like it knew exactly what was happening and sucked it in. Different than last time I could feel it slide over my prostate and immediately go to work. After about 20 mins of exercises as I call them, I began to feel warm and tingly and just over all hypersensitive. My dick was rock hard at this point and as much as I tried I could not keep my hands away from it. Still on my back I grabbed a pump of lube and slide it down what was now looking to be one of the most serious cases of morning wood ever. 8 strokes later I was producing the largest amount of cum I had seen come out of me. Now I'm not usually one to last forever, but not even on my first time has it only taken 8 strokes so this was a incredible feeling. I came Not in spurts but it just kind of oozed out constantly. As I'm having a wet orgasm the helix is “self fucking”…a term I read about… and I couldn't stop it because the orgasm felt so great. It was going in and out so hard that it was a bit much for a newbie but I was to overcome to pull it out before. So I tense up to stop its external movement and it just strokes my prostate inside while I'm ending my wet orgasm making me feel even better; almost sending me over the edge again. I just lay there in what seemed to be the most incredible morning bliss of my life.
From that day I knew I made the right purchase. I am still a working toward a handsfree O but from what I hear and read it all takes time. And I guess we will see what happens in the future. Since purchasing my helix 8 months ago I kept trying different things. I've used it with a Fleshlight and hot octopus male vibrator (hated it). I haven't been able to orgasm without manual stimulation yet but Its almost like a sexual awakening. I'll make a post about my latest Aneros purchase in a separate post. What I do know is that getting to know my own back end has been the best sexual decision of my life. I’d like to explore other Aneros toys anyone have experience with paradise?
Nice reading, man! Cool to se others in the same situation as myself.
- OFG
@OneFitGuy Just read your post and that's incredible that your getting those sensations so fast. I need to post some of my more recent experiences. Do you like the prograsm more or the helix?
Thank you, @Lasiter1 ! I dont know where you are in the process right now, but keep up the good work and I'm sure you will have tons of joy and pleasure with your device.
I'm still pretty new in the game, so it's difficult to choose a favorite, as they both give me great pleasure. But based on my last sessions I would lean towards the helix, as it is slightly more comfortable to use (due to its smaller size) and also somewhat easier to generate the handsfree feelings as it its much more mobile.
The progasm, however, hits the prostate in a more direct way, but doesn't move around that much. So I usually use this together with some traditional penis stimulation (aka jerk off), which will create some really intense feelings. I know some people will argue not masturbate will using the device, but it just feels too damn good, haha.
This is just my personal opinions right now, and may change over time.
- OFG
@OneFitGuy i would agreed 100 percent with normal manual stimulation along with aneros. I mean I get that you're supposed to go hands free, but the urge is so intense to touch. I usually end up rolling over on my stomach. And once the "shaking" starts it's incredible. I try and edge that way. Holding till I can't take it.
I have since once upgraded to a vice and I'll make a post about that soon. And I'm sure my opinions will change as well
Awesome! So you're like "dry humping" the bed? I tend to do that too if things get too intense. Feels amazing! Wonder how it's like to "be with a girl" with this thing..
Yeah, I would love to hear your experiences with the Vice. I've never tried a vibrating toy myself. Maybe it's time to check it out. How do you like it?
- OFG
Awesome! So you're like "dry humping" the bed? I tend to do that too if things get too intense. Feels amazing! Wonder how it's like to "be with a girl" with this thing..
Yeah, I would love to hear your experiences with the Vice. I've never tried a vibrating toy myself. Maybe it's time to check it out. How do you like it?
- OFG
Too intense? I'm actually a huge fan of vice. Just finished a post about it. I'll tag you in it. I use a soft blanket. You know the ones that are almost like fury but just soft. It's my designated aneros blanket lol.
Yeah, I find it extremely difficult to keep my hands off my dick when I feel "something big" is comming. Too bad, I've probably missed some great prostate orgasms due to that.. lol.
I just came back from a week long vacation with my family, and with little to no privacy I didn't get the chance to "take care of" myself. The last couple of days has been a struggle. I would describe it as being constantly horny as hell, but that would be an understatement, lol. So the first thing I did when I got home was to play with my helix. No super-o's this time, but probably 8-10 dry-o's. God I love this toy.