I bought mine in private at first, my wife knows about it.

How is Pete’s prostatitis ? 

Does he have better ejaculation control? Like lasting longer after using it?

For sure! So the way it started with my wife and I, and we've been together 25 years, was I simply wanted to find ways to have the strongest orgasms I've ever had. I'm an "orgasm chaser" if that's such a thing, and if there's a way to cum as hard as humanly possible, and then cum harder than that, that's what I'm all about. I was always interested in anal/prostate play, but didn't really know exactly how to make it work, or how to make it work with my wife involved. So early on, maybe about 3 years into our relationship, we bought her a dildo harness and a small, thin, 4" unremarkable dildo from Tantus (there weren't a lot of sex toy companies back then). I cleaned out with an anal enema, didn't know how to use it so it left me with a lot of gas (lol!), and she suited up and did me. It was pretty unremarkable. :(  I felt "something" but no idea what, it was just a pretty sexy, kinky event in our already varied and adventurous sex life together.

Then in fall of 2004, I think I got an ad in an email, or saw an ad on a porn site, I can't remember, but it was an ad for Aneros toys and it claimed "hands-free orgasms" and also enhanced, stronger orgasms and ejaculations. I HAD to get it! It was the old MGX, when there was no K-tab and K-tabs were still a few years off from release on the original Progasm. I got it and excitedly went in the side room alone, followed the instructions, got very ready, and gave it a try. It moved. I felt "something" and it felt good, but also, confusing: what was I supposed to feel, how would this make me feel, when does the "orgasm" start and what is it supposed to feel like anyway?? Needless to say I tried again a day or two later, and while I realized I couldn't tell what a prostate orgasm felt like, or anything related for that matter, I decided to get an erection and cum with the MGX still in me. OMG it was a cataclysmic-level orgasm/ejaculation!!! I had never imagined I could cum so hard before, or so completely and fully. Full drainage and the sense of being emptied out was exhilarating and highly relieving. I told my wife, she was so happy for me.

Then after a month or two I can't remember it was 20 years ago now, she was with me while I used the MGX. She gave me a blowjob when I had the toy in me. Hard to put into words, but parts of my insides were now fully connected with my penis and what she was doing to it with her mouth. It was completely new, it was indescribable, I had never felt such a deep physical connection between my prostate, anus, groin, penis, scrotum, perineum, and her sexual stimulation of me like this before, and I never imagined how connected everything could feel. Or how intense it would be!!! I remember we had sex while I had the toy in me and I was on top, and it kept falling out of me. I tried to finish with the toy in me, I pulled out to cum on her (a preference of ours due to her getting bladder infections from me finishing in her) and the toy shot out of me and landed like 10 feet away across the room when I came!!! While I missed that finishing feeling I was loving during solo sessions, it made for a much enhanced sensation during coitus and my O at the end was very strong.

Next time I used it, she was on top and finished me that way, we bit the bullet and she let me cum in her, and OMG I thought I melted away into nothing. The toy moves on its own during a man's traditional orgasm as the anus puckers rhythmically during orgasm (a woman's anus does the same thing to a degree), so the body of the Aneros thrusts in and out in sync with his penile orgasm and the toy hits the prostate, which generates more sexual stimulation, which drives the orgasmic ejaculation on and can actually prolong the orgasm and make it continue kind of all on its own. Cumming this way started to extend my own traditional orgasm, with or without a toy in me, beyond 20 seconds, then 30 seconds, then 45 seconds, and sometimes, if our lovemaking was very intense and long lasting, when I finally came it would sometimes last for 60+ seconds. I attribute all my heightened, lengthened, extended traditional orgasms to Aneros use, solely, it was the Aneros that made this all possible.

Aneros is fun to use during handjobs and blowjobs, and actually can be easier sometimes. I just lie on my back and my wife touches me all over my legs, my ass, my torso, and my scrotum, and the sensations are heightened and amplified due to the toy in me. Then after I have had several hands-free prostate orgasms, she'll go to work on my penis, and it is like penis stimulation x100. Over the top, way strong, sometimes I'm left reeling. When she finishes me when I have a toy in, with her hand but especially with her mouth, it is cataclysmic and beyond powerful, it seers my soul. Speechless. A quivering mess for minutes on end on the floor or bed, I'm unable to even move sometimes. 

I hope this quite explicit but informative set of anecdotes lets you know that there is a very wide world of sexual fun a man and woman can partake in with the aid of just a simple little sex toy ;)

 But over the time and experience all of this I learned so much what going on down there I find it fascinating. My wife is nurse and she has learned a lot also. By doing lot of research over the last two years now. It’s great that I came across Aneros.  I told my wife that I would like to get a prostate massager she was all for it. She told me to get a good one. I bought a vice 2. I have only try it twice so far as of today.  It feels awesome but I haven’t had the big O yet. I tell the wife after every time I t tried it she is super cool about it.  
  We talked about my using it during intercouse. We will use it but I’m not there yet. Just want to learn how my self first. I’m 55 years old I’m back to full heath I need to take about 80 mg of Viagra to keep a good erection. But it’s worth it.

 So to your question why is a man shy about talking about using a vibe in the bum.  It sounds gay but I tell you what I want something in there now after all of this. It’s one awesome feeling. Guys don’t be shy do it.  After having my physical therapist massaging me I looked forward to seeing her every week. She could do me anytime. No I don’t see her anymore but I’m a on a new track with Aneros and my wife.  I tease my wife every time Amazon delivers something I ask her is that my new strap on for me hun.  Lol. 

my advise guys just take it slow and try it out. Your nerves for you penis starts in your pelvic floor.  Cheers 

I hope it's ok for a woman to post a message, but my husband won't do it and I wanted to share our experience of an Aneros couple. It started nearly two years ago when Pete had trouble holding his erection and his ejaculate was thin not nice, and ejaculating itself was a little bit sore at times. The doc checked him over, said he might have a bit of prostatis which we knew nothing about. Oferred a course of massage which seemed to work but embarassed Pete a lot. However, by the end of the course he was harder again, the soreness had gone and his semen was in better shape. But within three months the old signs returned, albeit much less than before. He, and I, were worried and ready to go back to doc when we saw an alternative therapy clinic advertise prostate treatments. Thought we'd try and found more massage but with implements not fingers. Pete thought it worked better though it was probably becasue a finger wasn't poking inside of him. The therapist sold him some stuff, including an aneros, and suggested he try them out on his own as the treatment didn't need any special expertise. Pete did, only when I was out, again becasue of the connotations of a man poking his own bum. Over the last year he was noticeably better in bed, happier and him peeing sounded like a tap turned full on. I was interested but he'd keep me at a distance. Until I decided to confront him, making sure we didn't spend time apart for a couple of weeks so he couldn't find the time to be alon with his aneros. Eventually he gave in and allowed me to observe. After all I used my vibe when he was about, so what was tht different. When I dd get to watch I was stunned to see Pete convulse when using the aneros and to spontaneously ejaculate without touching his penis. Just by contacting; it hit me that he was doing the same pc exercises that I used. So I wanted him in me with it in him and when we did this he moaned like no other time, was hard and had stamina I'd not seen for a long time. We both really got off on the experience and his super orgasm helped my orgasms. We now set special Aneros time aside when we talk about it and use it so we know better how it works for us. We've become closer with a special more intimate bond - he's happier and healthier. And I'm enjoying each lay as though I'd got a new man! So, thank you Aneros!

Jane

PS Why is it that men using the aneros is so secret when we women have been using vibes for years and they are now sold everywhere. God, even my local pharmacy has some discreet models on sale. And regular TV shows plastic cocks in dramas and comedies. Yet a man and his bum is still taboo! So mad...........