My general strategy/preference over the years has been to use a variety of toys and choose whichever one I’m feeling that day. I have noticed, however, it seems my Helix Trident (regular plastic version) seems to give me the best sensations.

So, my question is…for my stubborn prostate that is slow to join the party, is it possibly better to pick one toy and be consistent with it over a long period of time? Then, I could add more variety of massagers as the pleasure increases and sessions get easier? Let me know what you guys have found success with!

Hi! I'll try to condense my context and questions, but bare with me. I got my Aneros Helix Trident about a month and 1/2 ago. I used to believe prostate pleasure was a myth or a 1-in-100 type thing, but after I took the plunge and got the trident, my world changed. I've plateaued though, and I feel stuck, which I know is common. But what do I do?

My first sessions:

I didn't feel anything my first session (1-1/2 hrs), totally normal, and didn't expect to. Later, I wake up that night the most aroused I'd ever been. I was shaking and my nerves all around my groin were electric with activity. I did a session the next day, with the residual arousal from last night, and felt a little bit of dull pleasure as the toy pressed against me. It didn't pulse, bloom, or radiate or anything, though. Progress. My general routine is/was a hot shower to relax, lube up, insert the toy, belly breathe for 10 mins to relax, and then passively wait for something, anything to happen. I lay on my side, back in the "top leg to chest" method Aneros recommends. I also incorporate nipple play, which is both pleasurable by itself and can amplify prostate pleasure- to an extent. I didn't use porn the first few times (images only), but the 4th session I did, and that's also my defining moment. I will note that on my 3rd session, my penis was between my legs (it kept touching the sheets) and it ended up leading to a build of penile/prostate pleasure, and I was mentally able to push myself over the edge, but it wasn't really a prostate orgasm.

My 4th session changed me:

Unbeknownst to me, the planets aligned that day. My roommates were gone, it was warm and quiet in my room, and I felt very aroused. I think the novel sensation of everything made my nerves very sensitive and hungry for stimulation. I did my routine, and immediately I felt a warm pleasure just while inserting. It was like my body was ready to hit the ground running. I had to keep my own body at bay while I calmed myself. Then, I completely relaxed, letting my body do things to me. I instantly went into a P-wave. Lots of tingly, warm, hugging, happy feelings in my pelvic area. I had to belly breathe and calm down as my breathing became ragged. I don't think my body knew how to process the intensity of the sensations. When one P-wave began to subside, another washed over it with even more pleasure. My body was in a loop fueled by its own pleasure. After several P-waves, I was begging my body for a release, but there was no way to "spill over". Eventually, I got a little restless and decided to see how far I could push myself with nipple play. I reached a soft peak, and then I must've overdone it, because I slowly became less sensitive, but I was able to get a last good P-wave in. 

This was amazing. It was like the stairway to heaven unfolded in front of me, showing me more than I could ever dream of, but only a taste of it. I was very satisfied and impressed with myself after the session, but this is where I peaked.

My plateau:

After that, I began learning more about involuntary contractions and how to invite a super-O. I began to recognize all the different vibrations, buzzes, pulls, rhythmic sensations, etc. They occurred, and still occur while I'm doing work, laying down, etc, and can reach mini P-wave levels. I tried again a few times after that. Some being ruined by my roommates coming back, calls, loud noises, etc. My sessions were a little fragile. My 5th session was strictly only small contractions. I felt no pleasure. My later sessions focused on relaxing my now-active anus, and focusing on contractions and prostate sensations. Some sessions (lost count) had 2-3 P-waves, maybe more, but they were much less powerful, and most didn't radiate/bloom, so I know I wasn't anywhere close to 4th session levels. I know the feeling of losing yourself to the sensations, where they stop needing to be focused on and become unignorable, almost taking control of you. That feeling is a more rare occurrence now. Later, I realized I was chasing the high of my 4th session, which was kind of a lucky fluke. I was also leaning more on porn to feel aroused, which doesn't maintain the "loop". I refined my mindset and attempted to sparsely use porn, and avoid any negative thoughts. My last 2 sessions have been focused on enjoying the session rather than trying to perform or compare myself, which brings me to the present.

Where I am now:

I just finished a 4 hour session. I feel bad for going so long, and it was supposed to only be ~2 hrs. However, it's probably my second best session yet (still far from the 4th, and not particularly good.) I enjoyed the process, mostly, and had a few P-waves that bloomed and radiated bliss. They were legitimately pleasurable, but that radiating state was mostly achieved from nipple play, if that matters. They were, however, nearly indefinite if I wanted them to be. The rest were mostly some less pleasurable P-waves that I had to focus on to keep going.

My question is, how am I doing? Am I on the right track? How can I improve myself? And, how important is initial arousal? (Do you need to be feral to have a good session?)

Another question (with context) is, within the last 2 sessions, I have developed a strange pelvic floor clench that's automatic, even if I'm totally relaxed. My pelvic floor will (almost unnoticeably) slowly ratchet itself into a 50-70% clench. It then causes these rhythmic "involuntaries" to reactively push and pull the toy up and down a little, sometimes like a see-saw. I don't think it moves much in my ass, from what I can see, but they can feel pretty strong and almost controlling, like a really good P-wave does. They're usually not very pleasurable, but I do get little tingles/buzzes of pleasure when my prostate is blooming/radiating, which causes the contractions to occur more. The clenching comes in waves, I think, and the involuntaries seem to happen more as the waves progress, kinda like P-waves. Since these arent 100% "passive" contractions, I'm not sure if they're actually involuntaries. So, my question is, what is this clench, and what should I do when this happens?

Thanks for reading! Any guidance is appreciated, as I feel like I'm walking blindly at this point. I also accept that this is a journey that will take time, and is one in which the path is non-linear, with highs, lows, and plateaus. At the end of this beginner journey, though, my goal is to achieve a super-O, and then hopefully be rewired enough to do it again. 

The goal being to be as receptive and passive as possible, I try to imagine the feelings of a woman being penetrated. I imagine a woman next to me, explaining how she learns to relax. The image she uses is to lenghten her vagina, stretching it mentally downards while relaxing. I try to apply this to my own body. In order to feel the stretch, she can delicately insert her smallest finger and study the sensations (but I'm not allowed to do the same, I may only use my imagination).

I imagine I am in her place... I imagine I am her.

I dated guys with big dicks and taught myself to open up, stretch and lengthen my pussy and get wet. The more assertive the cock was, the less assertive I had to be myself, because I had to adjust to the cock. Now i'm fucked by a lover with the thinnest penis possible. Sometimes I don't even know anymore if he is in or not... He is strong and muscular and I love to feel his weight on me. He is also a great kisser (which I crave). He can come in and out without my pussy wanting to fight nor grab his cock. This relieves me of the pressure of adjusting to the penis, everything just flows naturally. Sometimes my pussy squeezes his dick (and it grows a bit thicker) but it’s my fault, and it feels great anyway, as if my vagina teases it to the exact girth it needs.

It's important not to apply too much pressure for too long to this area as it may bruise the nerves, but for a short duration trial, you may start to get unusual internal sensations that later become interpreted as pleasurable sensations accompanying further internal prostate stimulation. At least it provides a hint of the sensations possible without a lot of fuss.

Good luck in getting stimulated (sic) enough to consider going further with internal prostate massage: there's nothing gay about it.

I also can't believe that after more than a year, I'm the first poster to ask after him, but I haven't been able to find any other topic!  Can anyone give me some more info?  

If nothing else, we need to carry on his work by keeping his knowledge alive, especially all his most important links.  Here's his Newbie's Notebook, for anyone new who hasn't read it  https://community.aneros.com/forum/newbies-nook/introductory-message-to-new-members/

Is this a normal experience that's part of the rewiring process?