Another early morning and with an hour to spare before work I decided to experiment further with our new toy. First up, time for a modification. I wrapped the gizmo in foil (except for the bit that the K-tab is linked to) and held this over the hotplate on our hob in order to push the tab out a bit. I have since learned that the Prograsm doesn't necessarily need heated in order to pull either tab into a more comfortable...

As an introduction, I'm a gay man in my mid-30s. I am in a committed relationship with my partner (X) and we have been very happy together (and sexually active) for 10 years now. As some straights often ask, 'Which is one of you is The Man?'. Well, sometime the stereotypes are true. In our case, X is a total bottom. He has experimented maybe 3 or 4 times over the past decade with being 'on top' but much prefers being...