I think I am finally at peace with my Aneros mission and that is what it took to get positive results. You read and hear about all of the advise, ” dont expect too much, just relax, dont try to make something happen” and it all sounds so easy and also like a bunch of BS but I finally get it. and it is not something you do, it is more of an acceptance of your own personal situation and letting it happen for you. There you go another line for someone to read and say. Yea right! But for me I feel like I finally am enjoying my sessions and letting them go at their own pace and good things are starting to happen. Not sure exactly what is happening but it is much more enjoyable now. I can start out just relaxing on the bed and try a little a-less to get things going, with a little nipple stim I can have warm intermitttint pulses in my prostate. When that subsides, I can lube up and put in my Aneros, It feels great going in and I am already relaxed from the a-less and with in minutes the warm pulsing starts again. At this point the feelings are much more pleasurable and they build to what feels like might be a orgasm but hey subside after a few nice pulsing contractions. I can go on with this for about thirty minutes and things start to calm down. The thing is now i am totally acceptant of what happend and enjoy every minute and not dissapointed that the super O was not achieved. sometimes I will finish with caressing my cock untill I cum and other times I can just stop and still feel totally satisfied. I dont expect to much and I am getting alot more. looking forward to more pleasure.
goldenboy
@sfs I enjoyed reading this! Great post! You can see that by gently “communicating with your prostate through Aless contractions and other techniques, you can be more in-tune with your body. Just don’t expect too much and you will be surprised at what is in store for you!
goldenboy
@sfs I enjoyed reading this! Great post! You can see that by gently “communicating with your prostate through Aless contractions and other techniques, you can be more in-tune with your body. Just don’t expect too much and you will be surprised at what is in store for you!
GGringo
@sfs I am exactly where you are after a year and a half of trying. I finally let everything go and just started to enjoy my sessions; every sensations and every feeling. The results are the same as yours; better sessions even without the big one. It will come when it’s dam good and ready.
Thanks for sharing. Good vibes.
SOwithoutAneros
@sfs, congrats, that’s exactly the mindset to get the best results. Stick to it!
If you like, try extreme slow-mo’s* of everything you do, from breathing to nipple play to inserting your Aneros, you will discover much deeper and stronger feelings and maximize your awareness. I wish you all the best!
(*For example my extreme slow-mo version of nipple play: Holding my forefinger only near my nipple for a minute or longer, coming nearer and nearer but still without touching, only trying to feel the vibes between nipple and finger, until I so eagerly wish that touch may happen, that I can’t resist any longer, but then only one extreme soft and short touch for one tenth of a second, then again waiting some seconds before touching a second time, later perhaps resting the finger on the nipple, but as soft as possible and without any motion. Just give it a try, it’s awesome.)
SOwithoutAneros
Forgot to mention, slow-mo nipple play works best in front of a mirror. Good vibes!
BigGlansDC
@SOwithoutAneros, I love your suggestions about nipple play which I call diddling. I discovered nipple play in a new, exciting way at night when I was in rehab center for nine weeks learning to walk again after my hip injury.